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Dressing for Successexxx on a Lifestyle Date

Adult dating for swingers is more similar to vanilla dating more than many might assume. Those going out on a lifestyle date strive to look and feel their best and make a stellar impression on their companions. If you’re curious what those in the swingers lifestyle wear for meet-ups and rendezvous or are a novice seeking advice, this one’s for you.

Consider This Essential First…

First and foremost, it’s monumental to consider whether your attire will be ‘appropriate’ should your run into one of your co-workers or your child’s teacher. If you aren’t outed as being into swinging (and don’t want to be), keep this in mind whether you’re heading out for a meet and greet or to a sexy club engagement. On to the clothes you’ll perhaps aspire to take off.
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Wardrobe Options for Casual Encounters

While men can get away with wearing some nice casual clothes or a sports jacket and slacks, ladies have it tough. Trying to find something wavering between classy, sexy and acceptable…where to even begin? Consider going with a relatively casual meet and greet outfit that’s somewhat subdued. Skinny jeans and a sexy top or sweater, a nice pants suit, or a dress that highlights all the right parts may be excellent choices.

Dressing for Serious Dates to the Swingers Club

If  you know you’re going for the gusto with your date, it’s likely you won’t be making many stops where you might be spotted beforehand. Feeling bold? Wear sultry attire that’s barely there topped with a trench coat to make a memorable entrance that’s street legal. Don your best cosplay or even costume for special occasions. The club is your ‘free zone’ so many have little to no limitations on attire.

Most importantly, it’s WHO you are and how confidently you carry yourself that makes you the sexiest. So be comfortable first and foremost, so your brilliantly sexy personality will shine, too.

HOW SWINGERS DATE IN A VANILLA WORLD

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Despite more recognition, swinging is still far from being a mainstream activity. Luckily, the internet has made finding partners and clubs easier than ever. For swingers living in a vanilla world, these are the top ways people date and enjoy the lifestyle without worries! Online Hookups The internet provides the quickest and easiest way of meeting new partners or finding new clubs, but some cities are more active than others. Major cities and metro areas are likely to be filled with countless swinger profiles and ads, while rural areas lack READ MORE

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS & ONLINE DATING

The concept of open relationships has been around since the 70s with a few distinctions here and there such as the number of partners and the boundaries in place. The rise of individuals getting into open minded relationships and incorporating…

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Going on a First ‘Date’ with Swinger Couples? Here’s What to Expect

It’s only natural to be a little nervous on a first date, and that anxiety can be enhanced for those in the swingers lifestyle.  After all, you’ll be meeting more …

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Top Swingers Lifestyle App to Meet New Playmates

swingers appFinding new friends as a swinger can be challenging enough, but the daunting efforts one goes through when looking for new potential partners for playtime can seem impossible. There are quite a few people who want to play ‘lifestyle games’ but never intend to follow through with people they meet. If you’re ready to hook up and connect with real people interested in swinging, we suggest the SwingLifeStyle App

SwingLifestyle boasts the largest membership of swinging singles, couples and others looking for fun, friends to explore with, and good times. Some on the platform are new to the swingers lifestyle or merely interested, while others may be long-time participants. There’s something for everyone on this global connection service, and they also have exceptional resources for clubs, events, and forums for members.

The platform caters to single male and females looking for couples, couples looking for other couples and single females or people in general seeking new and unique intimate encounters. Available on any device, this app offers live chat, nude cam rooms with chat and much more to enhance the user experience.

Users of the Swinglifestyle App rave about top features they can access such as “Who Viewed Me” “Matches” “Who’s On” “Hot Dates” and other top features. And that is precisely what swingers download the app with the intention of achieving lifestyle success. In addition, you have access to swingers clubs, parties and lifestyle events such as Hotel Takeovers and swingers cruises and lifestyle vacation at your fingertips, which makes it easy to get everyone on the same page for group play. The site also has a large assortment of useful guides about sexuality, relationships, health, and other swinger related lifestyle news.

Seeking thrills beyond what’s available through your usual connections and want to make new friends? Check out the Swinglifestyle App favored by those active in the swinging lifestyle.

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ROLE PLAYING WITH A SWINGING COUPLE

Being a swinging couple, you have almost certainly had one of your sexual fantasies as dressing up while taking up a different persona. This is because for some couples, role playing is a great way to utilize their imagination to enhance their sexual experiences. Role playing serves as one of the best methods to step up your sexual experience a notch higher, because it introduces variety to your sex life. Whether it is with those sexy short school girl uniforms or those tight nurse uniforms, role playing adds fun and excitement READ MORE

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Tips for Choosing Swinger Couples For Playtime in the Lifestyle

Your spouse or partner has agreed to kickstart a swinging lifestyle with you. While you couldn’t be more thrilled for the highly memorable encounters yet to come, before they can …

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POPULAR PLAYROOMS AT YOUR LOCAL SWINGERS CLUB

One of the perks of the swinging lifestyle is the tremendous variety of opportunities that present themselves in a swingers club. Many clubs offer more than common areas for meeting and greeting with other like-minded community members in the form…

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The Importance of Engagement Within the Swinging Lifestyle

Being a part of the swinging lifestyle is just as enjoyable outside of the bedroom as it is within it. By actively engaging with others who love swinging in other types of social situations, there is much insight to be gained, many good times to be had, and quite a few new friends to be made. Check out these benefits of socializing with like-minded people beyond sexual gratification.

Swinger Friends Make Great Vacation and Hang Out Buddies

Traveling or hanging out with others in the swinging lifestyle doesn’t mean the trip must be dedicated solely to swingers or even have sex during the journey. What it does mean is that you can go anywhere with your friends without the worry of being exposed as a swinger. This can be important if you aren’t outed as a swinger or just don’t want to be. You can have a great trip without any need to feel shameful or guilty, and if the urge strikes for action, willing parties will be nearby.

Working Together to Make Families and Relationships Stronger

Swingers come from all walks of life. Some are married, some are single, some have life partners, many have children and certain groups in the lifestyle for their own mini-families or pods. Being a part of these groups of people opens up doors to learn about the various manners in which swingers embrace the lifestyle. Discussions are usually very free, which allows newbies or those who are having trouble coping with lifestyle concerns to get honest advice and support.

Even if you are swinging single in this all-too vanilla world, don’t miss out on all the goodness that goes along with being an active and engaged member of the lifestyle community both in and out intimate situations.

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THREE TIPS FOR SWINGING SINGLE IN THE LIFESTYLE

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Whether you’re a single male or a high-flying unicorn embracing the lifestyle as a swinger, there are certain guidelines that participants typically follow—sort of like a secret code. Here are three tips for single swingers to help keep things swinging in the right direction. 1. Understand Club Rules Let’s face it, the single ladies have it made in the lifestyle. Unicorns typically enjoy perks such as free entries to parties, clubs and other lifestyle events. Single Male on the other hand are allowed limited entry, often required to be escorted READ MORE

Why Swinging Works

Top 3 Reasons Why Swinging Works

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WHY SWINGING DOES WONDERS TO YOUR LACKLUSTER MARRIAGE

Want to know Why Swinging Does Wonders to Your Lackluster Marriage? Most marriages often drown in their self-created boredom. Monogamous marriages are more like monotonous routines. The same story of work, chores, kids, bills, deadlines and Monday mornings, rob us of…

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Soft Swap In The Swingers Lifestyle Explored

While many misunderstand its meaning, a soft swap can be a great introduction to the swingers lifestyle. Soft play is a way of easing into partner sharing, but many swinging couples strictly stick with this ‘softer side.’ In a hard swap—aka a full swap—the possibilities for penetration are only limited by boundaries set by participants. However, a soft swap generally stops somewhere shy of penetration. Think kissing, oral sex, manual stimulation, etc.

What Are the Benefits of Soft Play Swinging?

While the point of swinging is basically about swapping partners, going hard core with strangers right off the bat may not be your cup of tea. However, the basic act of seeing your partner caressing and receiving the affections of another may be stimulating, which is the basis of the lifestyle. Not only will you be super turned on, but you will be having experiences that you can relive in your private bedroom.

If you are somewhat jealous or are working on curbing such tendencies, doing a soft swap with a trusted couple can certainly help you both feel more comfortable. These types of swaps are a great way to test the waters and see if the lifestyle is right for you. If it is, you will probably find yourself craving even more action and feel brave enough to go with a full on hard swap in the future.

Take Precautions During Soft Swaps

It is essential to keep in mind that even no-intercourse playtime with toys, oral actions or manual stimulation can be a source of Swinging & STDs.  With this in mind, take extra precautions during your swinging adventures to ensure that you and your primary partner are playing it safe.

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FULL SWAP V/S SOFT SWAP WHICH WAY TO GO?

Full swap v/s Soft swap which way to go?

Over the last few years, the swinging lifestyle has become quite the in thing with an increasing number of couples. However, despite this upsurge of interest in swapping sexual partners, there is still a lot of haze surrounding just what options are available for swingers. Particularly when it comes to choosing between soft swaps and full swaps. Naturally, there are extremely pertinent issues that need to be comprehensively addressed before swingers opt for either of these relationships. It is crucial for such couples to determine their distinct outlook to what READ MORE

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What You Need To Know About A Full Swap

Swinging has been term by many people as an activity that brings in less infidelity, less confinement and fewer insecurities in a relationship. It gives the couples involve, more trust, …

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INVITING SOMEONE ELSE TO YOUR BED

The task of introducing a guest into your bedroom for the purposes of swinging shouldn’t be approached lightly, especially for new swingers; for all the things that could go right, there are also a few things that could go wrong….

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The Self-Conscious Side of Swinger Men

Some people falsely believe that lifestyle men have it made…that they are free of the cares and concerns of swinging women. However, nothing could be further from the truth! One must keep in mind that men are self-conscious, too—some even more so than female swingers.

Swinger Men are Appearance Conscious

The swingers lifestyle is arguably all about the law of attraction, so it’s only natural that both men and women who swing tend to pay more attention to their appearance. They tend to be in better shape, dress sharper and do more grooming of certain parts than the average couple.

Unfortunately for single swinger men, the standard they are upheld to in the lifestyle can be even more intense than those who are in relationships. One could argue that single men who are more attractive and well put together will enjoy greater success in the competitive world of swinging.

Performance Anxiety for Lifestyle Men is Very Real

You might believe that a man who gets laid by multiple partners would have no anxiety about their performance. This is also a mistaken conclusion. In fact, these men may actually have more performance anxiety than someone in a traditional relationship. Questions often whirl through the male brain where they question their size and attractiveness in relationship to other male playmates in the room.

These doubts can cause a snowball effect that actually does end up resulting in a lessened performance. Once the ball starts rolling, it can be challenging for a man to snap out of it and get back into the groove of things. The male ego can be a dangerous thing!

So here’s the scoop guys and gals: we all have anxieties and feel self-conscious from time to time. However, keeping a positive attitude and knowing just how amazing you truly are can help you succeed in the swingers lifestyle with greater confidence.

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HOTWIFING ISSUES: DO MEN LOVE THEIR WIVES?

Do you believe that men can still love their wives even though they are involved in Hotwifing? Most women wonder if their men are really into them, reason being that their soul mate advises them to be intimately involved with other men. Some of these women may wonder if what they are being required to do is really possible. It is easy to come into terms with what these women are thinking of the Hotwifing issue, this is because these women have some outlook on how relationship should be and what READ MORE

An Overview Of Swingers and Relationships

There are people whose lives are like an open book, while others keep theirs on a low key. However, there are certain aspects of life that everyone wants to keep …
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SINGLE MALE IN THE LIFESTYLE

The swinging lifestyle is usually associated with couples but in most cases, single men play an important role. For instance, in the case of cuckolding, a husband will watch his wife make love with another man who is single. In…

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Subtle Signs Your Neighbor Might Be Into the Swinging Lifestyle

If your neighbor is a swinger, it’s highly unlikely that they will say so when they introduce themselves to you. However, there are several theories and suppositions on a number of popular swingers lifestyle forums that claim that there are subtle signs that indicate a home’s occupants might be into the swinging lifestyle. While we can’t verify these claims, it does give you something to look for when driving around your neighborhood.

Landscaping and Decor Giveaways of a Swinger

Supposedly, garden gnomes and pink flamingos are often present in the lawns of individuals into the swinging lifestyle. Another bizarre sign that one should look for is a pineapple door knocker. Albeit this sounds a bit fruity, this is supposedly one of the most supported claims concerning decor signs.

Others cite that pink and purple decorations are a signal of swinger action, while there are also claims garden pampas grass is a secret sign. We have to admit, that some of these ‘signs’ seem fairly harmless and many are relatively common. However, if you see several of these indications in the same lawn, you might have neighbors who enjoy the swingers lifestyle.
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Personal Indicators Swingers Might Employ

Beyond what you see outside the home, what you see your neighbor donning—particularly jewelry wise—may also be covert signs that they enjoy partner swapping or other lifestyle activities. It’s been said that many swingers wear a black ring on their right hand if their open to meet fellow playmates, and that women may wear toe or thumb rings or anklets. Some may wear their wedding ring on the right hand to show that they are in some type of open marriage arrangement such as swinging.

In the jewelry department, we can confirm one indicator for sure: a secret symbol wristband. The symbol features the male and female signs with their circles intersecting. There will be three plus or minus signs on each side that indicates what they are looking for. For example, three plus signs on each side says, ‘we’re looking for partners as a couple’ while a minus sign means they are up for solo action.

Now that you know what your neighbors might be up to, keep your eyes peeled for possible new playmates or companions in the swingers lifestyle.

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Swapping Your Wife for Sex with another Man

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SWINGING LIFESTYLE: HOW SWINGERS RARELY GET DIVORCED

Learn how swingers rarely get divorced. Life always needs excitement and entertainment. No one likes to spend a monotonous life. It has been seen many times that often couples get bored of each other due to various reasons. Some…

POSITIVE EFFECTS OF WIFE SWAPPING IN A SWINGERS RELATIONSHIP

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Those considering elevating their relationship to greater heights of pleasure by joining the swingers lifestyle discover ample opportunities for wife swapping. A wife swap situation is where married couples switch partners willingly to engage in sexual enjoyment. These engagements can involve two or more couples and can involve bisexual encounters depending on the openness of the participants involved. Swingers participating in wife swapping get more than just sex from these experiences—there are actually quite a few long term benefits for such couples. 1.  Wife Swapping Swingers Develop Deeper Trust It READ MORE

How to Talk to Your Partner about Becoming Swingers

Through careful thought and deliberation, you’ve decided you want to spice up your sex life by inviting a third, even a fourth party into your otherwise two-person bedroom. What you have yet to do is discuss the matter with your spouse, because how do you even go about mentioning such a delicate topic?

The swinging lifestyle is more common than you likely realized, with an estimated 13 million people participating in swinging in the United States alone. If you’re eager to add yourself and your spouse to that esteemed count, then these tips are for you.

1. Skirt the Topic Before Diving Right In

The admission that you want to invite another couple into your sex life can be like a bomb being dropped on your partner. Don’t give them way more to bite off than they can chew right away. Instead, slowly entice them to the thought with small mentions here and there.

Ask questions of your spouse as well. Quiz them on their knowledge and interest in the swinging lifestyle. If there’s little interest, then it’s your job to ignite the spark in them that could have them saying yes to your proposition.

2. Know Thyself and Thy Spouse

Only through a clear, careful inspection into your own sexual likes and dislikes as well as those of your partner can the swinging lifestyle work for you. If there are certain sexual topics you two have shied away from for one reason or another, now’s a good time to bring them into the light.

3. Navigate for Negatives

While the hope and expectation is that your first swinging experience will be exceptional, having an exit plan is always wise. Whether it’s a safe word or a look between you and your spouse, if one of you feels uncomfortable and wants to end the experience, you should be able to, no hurt feelings.

Although entering the swinging lifestyle can be a touchy topic for first-timers, the above three tips will equip you with the poise and approach for a successful start.

IS THE SWINGING LIFESTYLE THE KEY TO SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE?

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Is The Swinging Lifestyle The Key To Saving your Marriage? We are living during a time where it’s regular for you to hear about a swinging, separations, breakups and unfaithfulness READ MORE

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Top 3 Reasons Why Swinging Works

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3 Ways Swinging Improves Everyday Relationships

Naysayers and non-participators claim that the only reason people swing is because they are promiscuous and unsatisfied in their current partnerships. Wrong. Nothing could be further from the truth. And while incredible sex with others with permission is clearly a benefit, the foundational couple swinging reaps a number of benefits, too.

1.  Sexual Desires Get Fulfilled Rather Than Repressed

Many are surprised to learn that a longtime partner or even a spouse has fantasies that would include another party involved in their intimate life. When partners can agree on being open to swinging, there’s an excellent chance that both will be fulfilling once hidden desires. There are couples just like you who go to swingers clubs and gatherings looking to release their inhibitions, so take the leap and give it a try.

2.  Swingers Divorce Less Frequently

While entering into the swingers lifestyle to try and ‘save’ your relationship is not typically recommended (don’t involve others in your drama), those with a solid partnership can enjoy greater marital bliss. In fact, there are numerous statistics that support claims that swingers have stronger relationships and tend to divorce less frequently than monogamous couples.

3.  Those Who Swing Enjoy Better Communication

Swingers tend to be more communicative overall, especially concerning sexual fantasies. This allows couples to enjoy greater satisfaction in their relationships because they are able to freely express themselves without fear of rejection or judgment. Better communication means that relationships can grown deeper, and partners tend to have greater ease resolving their issues. Overall, these benefits almost always equal a healthier, more fulfilling sex life.

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SWINGING FOR DUMMIES

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Bisexual and Swinging

Bisexual is the act of being attracted to both men and women romantically. Becoming a swinger will give you peace of mind because as a swinger you will meet with …

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BENEFITS OF BEING IN A SWINGER RELATIONSHIP

Being in a swinger relationship actually has its rewards, learn the benefits of being in a swinger relationship. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. Perhaps this is the driving force behind the success of swinger relationships. Although most…

Exploring the Kivin Method of Cunnilingus

Those in the swingers lifestyle may have heard of this specialized method of cunnilingus called the Kivin Method. While it sounds very scientific, this act is actually relatively simple to perform and even simpler to enjoy. Here’s how to include Kivin cunnilingus in your next sexual escapade.

Warming Her Up

Have the female position herself comfortably with her legs open. Warm her up with generous soft kisses and suckles around her inner thighs, her tummy and near the vagina teasingly but not touching it yet. As she grows more aroused, begin using your tongue and lips to slowly massage the vagina until she is ‘ready’ for action.

Assume the Position

Once she’s warmed up, position yourself perpendicular to her body with your head placed around the target zone. Place two fingers on each side of the clitoral hood, and run your tongue slowly back and forth taking time to hit the top and underside of the hood. Essentially, you are giving her a sideways cunnilingus experience at this time, but things will really heat up during the next step of the Kivin Method.

The Kivin Twist

Here’s where things get interesting and intense. Use a finger or the flat of the thumb to apply pressure on her perineum. This is the approximately one-inch area of skin between the vagina and the anus. This is the same area where pressure is applied during non-penetrating prostrate stimulation, so it’s a powerful stimulator for the sphincter muscles. Women can often experience greater heights of pleasure and a deeper orgasm due to the connection the Kivin Method provides between the clit and the perineum.

Essentially, keep licking, kissing and applying the Kivin Method until she orgasms and/or asks you to stop. As an optional positioning, some couples have the woman curl her legs up to the chest while the secondary partner holds their legs in place while performing the Kevin Method. This allows for a wider spread and easier access to the perineum to boost pleasure levels.

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5 TIPS ON HOW TO PERFORM ORAL SEX ON A WOMAN

5 Tips On How To Perform Oral Sex On A Woman

From LifeStyle Magazine Mike Hatcher some times gets tongue tied on my articles, but one thing I never get tongue tied is with oral sex on a woman. Oral sex is something that the vast majority of women love to have done to them, but of course it is only good if the man knows how to do it correctly. What follows are five simple tips that you should consider trying to put into good use the next time you are performing this sex act on your partner because there READ MORE

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5 Tips for Performing Oral Sex On a Man

Learning how to give a great blow job comes along with experience, and no two men are going to particularly enjoy exactly the same techniques—something those in the swinging lifestyle …

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Prostate Milking 101: How to Give Him A Mind Boggling Prostate Massage

Prostate milking is the process of gently massaging the prostate gland with the goal of ‘milking’ the lucky male recipient’s semen. Many men who’ve experience prostate milking claim that it provides the most incredible orgasm they’ve every had. However, there are health benefits of prostate massages, including its ability to lessen chances for developing prostate cancer. Between the health benefits and the pleasure factor, let’s explore the method of prostate milking.

How to Massage the Prostate Gland Step by Step

While achieving the goal is easier with a partner, this can be a solo act with a bit of clever maneuvering. However, we’ll write this guide from a partner’s perspective, but the general steps are the same regardless.

Step #1:  Get Prepared — It’s a good idea for the receiving male to have a bowel movement sometime recently prior to prostate milking, and if a finger will be used for the massage clipping the nails and cleaning the hands first are essential.

Step #2:  Assume the Position — There are three primary positions the male can consider that are conducive for prostate milking: on his back spread eagle, doggy style or lying on his side (recommended for solo prostate massages).

Step #3:  Lubricate — Whether using a prostate massaging toy or a finger, lubricate the insertion ‘tool’ and the anus generously.

Step #4:  Go for the Glory — Gently insert the device or finger slowly into the rectum with a focus on the belly button side of his body. Once inside, feel for the prostate, which is about 2-3 inches in and feels like a squishy walnut.

Step #5:  Massage Tips — Lightly massage around the prostate’s edges in a circular motion using the fingertip or device. Take care not to be ‘rough’ on the center of the prostate, as this is a super sensitive zone. Continue massaging, building up speed and pressure slowly until he ejaculates.

Walla! The recipient has just had the ultimate, mind-blowing orgasm.

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WHY WOMEN PREFER ANAL SEX

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ANAL SEX STORIES AND ANAL FOREPLAY TIPS

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Several people have wrote in looking for the best anal sex stories and wanting tips on how to have anal sex and anal sex foreplay. The best anal sex stories believe it or not are actually found on Swinglifestyle.com. After searching online I have found and included the best articles on anal sex and anal sex tips that you should bookmark below the stories. Enjoy the three top Anal Sex Stories below and don’t forget to scroll down to Anal foreplay tips and a beginners guide on anal sex. Top READ MORE