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Choosing The Right Man For A MFM Threesomes

Having two males in bed together can be exciting for the woman of a swinger couple. A Male Female Male threesome is most commonly referred to as MFM encounters in the lifestyle. This means that the woman is typically ‘the center of attention” and gets to play with both men, but there is no interactions between the two males of the threesome.

Finding the ideal man to add to your triad should involve open and honest communication between couple, so you can find someone where everyone is comfortable. We’re offering a few tips to help you make the best choice.

Determining What You Want in a Second Male Partner

You and your partner will want to jot down what the most important character and traits for their new addition. Discuss any details about what you’re both looking for which includes a number of factors. Experienced swinger couples likely already know what their preferences are so at this point its just a vetting process.

Are Appearances Important to You?

Do you want a hot and sexy man to challenge your senses? Or is a fairly typical man ideal for your MFM threesomes? This is a great starting point for choosing a man to join in your playtime.

Do You Prefer Gentle or Passionate Lovers?

Sometimes, couples are into cuddling and kissing, while others may find it too personal. Some couples may even go as far as having a no kissing rule as that may be a bit too intimate.  However, if you want passion along with pleasure, find a man who has that to offer and discuss the rules beforehand with all parties involved.


Do You Want Some Kinky BDSM Action?

More people are into bondage and other fetishes than you might realize. If you want a like-minded male partner, make sure to clarify that. You don’t want to catch a man off guard with floggers, ropes and other gear that could be triggering for him. Set guidelines and get permission.

Should the Man Be Bisexual or Straight?

With the woman taking the middle position, the two men may prefer not to engage with each other sexually. Yet, if both men are bisexual or even bi-curious, the experience can get even more interesting on a broader scope and definitely bring forth some excitement to Male Female Male threesomes.

Do You Want Someone to Talk & Flirt with You & Your Partner?

Some swingers couples prefer the silent, anonymous type, while others may want someone comfortable enough to have a conversation before or after their encounter. You’ll likely be able to identify the person’s social habits during your first phone or internet conversation.

Additional Planning Concepts

You’ll want to determine a few things before heading for the gusto, including:

  • How soon do you and your partner want to make this meet-up happen?
  • Who will host the festivities, or will you meet at a hotel?
  • Will you consider meeting up with the man again, or is it a one-time affair?

Make the Night One To Remember

Whether it’s your first MFM or not, make things extra special at the designated meet-up point. If it’s your home or a hotel room, set the mood with some candles, massage oil, music etc.  Otherwise, pack a goodie bag with your mood makers and get ready for a ‘sex’sational MFM time.

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Double Penetration – Explore A New Lifestyle Kink

If things get stale in the bedroom or it’s just time to try something new with your  partner, one of the most popular lifestyle kinks involves a sexual act called double penetration, or DP for short. However, DP isn’t just for those with an alternative lifestyle, as many people enjoy it as a part of their vanilla lifestyle with their monogamous partner.

Let’s explore what it is, what it involves and some tips for getting started with doubling up on sexual fun.

What is Double Penetration?

DP is the act of penetrating two openings in a sexual way, most typically the anus and the vagina. Double penetration can also involve inserting two body parts or sex toys into a single opening simultaneously. The versatile possibilities allow lifestyle couples to involve multiple partners or two people and a few toys—and can even be possible with one person with multiple toys or a dual-headed dildo.

Receiving penetration in the anus and vagina at the same time gives the receiver a feeling of fulness while creating a greater sense of tightness for the givers. This act can also stimulate the g-spot and the prostate for mind-blowing sexual pleasure.

Next, we’ll discuss what you need to proceed with DP and explore some tips for success.

Approaching & Preparing for DP With a Partner

When you’re ready to experiment with this type of play, there are a few key steps of ensuring a good time is had by all. It all starts with communication between participants. What are each person’s expectations, what do they want to experience, what are their fears, will others participate?

With those issues covered and a mutual agreement in place—including a safe word—it’s time to gather up the right tools for a comfortable and gratifying DP experience.


How to Prepare for DP

Once rules have been set in place, get ready for the experience with a few tools of the trade. In addition to any protection against pregnancy or STD, one will want to get lots of body-safe silicone or water-based lube. Anyone wanting to use toys will need to let the receiver of the DP an array of sizes and shapes of phallic-like dongs and plugs to explore with solo before the first attempt at double penetration. If role playing, BDSM or other fantasies are to be acted out, obtain supplies to make it possible!

DP Starter Tips

Participants should begin with foreplay such as finger or toy insertion in one orifice before trying out two in order to loosen up the receiver and increase their comfort level for something larger. During the double penetration, several approaches can be explored. A vibrator and an anal plug or a partner’s member or a dildo attached to a harness are good starting points.

Some lifestyle couples introduce a second partner for MFM or FMF double penetration exploits. Remember, this can involve two insertions into one hole or a combination of both, so the possibilities with toys and other playmates open the doors for a whole world of exploration! Don’t forget that aftercare is a perfect way to end a DP session and encourage opportunities for future experiences.

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