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Swingers Lifestyle Vacations Couples Should Explore

April 20, 2023Swingers Events, Swingers Party, Swingers Resourcesclothing optional resort, lifestyle cruise, lifestyle vacation, lifestyle vacations, swingers cruise, swingers resort, swingers vacationswingersdotorgadmin

From clothing optional resorts to embarking on the high seas, there are many ways travelers with an open mind can have a good time on their next vacation. Check out some of the hottest and sexiest upcoming lifestyle options available for couples interested in swingers vacations or a lifestyle cruise.

Get Tempted at Allures Tropical SEXcapade in Costa Rica

Snag a last minute booking for a Costa Rica excursion through Topless Travel at one of the best boutique swingers resorts in South America. There are 20 luxurious guest accommodations at this all-inclusive destination, and guests receive meals, drinks and entertainment at no additional costs.

Take a soak in the pool or get cozy with your partner or a new one in the waterfall cave. The grounds are filled with colorful birds, lush vegetation, sloths, anteaters and native monkeys. The next SEXcapade at this clothing-optional resort operates from May 27 – June 3, 2023.

Hedonism My Frisky Business Resort Trip

From July 29 through August 5, 2023, get frisky at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica at this special gathering. Feel the freedom of exploring erotic taboos and giving in to temptation with a week of devilishly naughty activities with nudists and lifestyle enthusiasts.

While most attendees are routine guests on swingers vacations, they are some of the best people for making newbies feel welcome and helping them integrate into the scene. Between the live entertainment, music and dancing along with sexy scenery and delicious food, you’ll be a hedonist in a slice of heaven!

Get Wild on an East African Safari Adventure

Have a unique couples only experience in the heart of Kenya in the Great Rift Valley and Masai Mara region from September 6 – 13, 2024. Led by Lioness and her Cubs from Topless Travel, guests will stay at the Governors Camp, where the best wildlife viewing in the Reserve is located on the banks of the river. This location is where many of the top animal documentaries are filmed, so you can expect the unexpected here.

Between gatherings and playing with each other and new friends, guides will take you to meet the vibrant Masai tribespeople that love dancing, singing and entertaining guests. Guests will lodge in oversized luxury tents, replete with a bathroom and posh linens and bedding.

Take a Swingers Cruise to the Western Caribbean on the Celebrity Equinox

Blue skies and crystal clear waters await passengers on the Celebrity Equinox Cruise that is coming up on November 05 – 11, 2023. As one of the most popular swingers cruise options, you’ll want to book this trip now! After departing from Fort Lauderdale, you’ll have access to tons of like-minded people, activities and clothing-optional pool and deck events.

Once landing at ports in Labadee and Cozumel, tours will be available along with exquisite food, shows, after-dinner drinks and sensual parties. Get on board for some late-night playtime fun on this Caribbean adventure!

From first timers to experienced swingers, any of these spectacular travel opportunities are sure to be a memorable time. Get wild, or be more tame while exploring lifestyle vacations—the choice is yours!

THE BENEFITS OF LIFESTYLE SITES LIKE SLS

SwingLifeStyle is an online community that allows people of the lifestyle to connect with others in a safe and secure environment. It is also a great place to find compatible partners for you to explore your sexuality. If you are active in the lifestyle and looking for an alternative relationship, Then SwingLifeStyle is the site for you. They are currently the number one lifestyle website in the US and offer a user-friendly website with a high success rate and features that facilitate those looking for sexual adventures. If you are READ MORE

SWINGERS CRUISES: A GUIDE FOR FIRST TIMERS

Lifestyle cruises can be a remarkable experience for swingers and voyeurs alike. However, if you’ve never partaken in a swingers vacation of any type, taking a cruise might seem daunting. Fortunately, this short guide for first timers will help you…

Three Key Things You Can Learn at a Lifestyle Vacation Retreat

Heads up swingers! If you have been—or are getting more involved—in playing with others, it might be time for you to take a lifestyle vacation. A swingers vacation can open … READ MORE

Understanding Bi-curious Men in the Swingers Lifestyle

January 11, 2023Swingers Resourcesbi-curious, bicurious, bisexuality, swingers club, swingers lifestyle, swinging, swinging menswingersdotorgadmin

Let’s face it—in the swingers lifestyle bisexual women are the norm and it’s almost expected that female swingers go both ways. However, when it comes to bi-curious men in the swingers world, reactions and expectations can be quite different due to a long-standing double standard amid the lifestyle. That being said, let’s move along and answer these commonly asked question even among ‘normal’ lifestyles and partnerships.

Does Being Bi-curious Make One Gay?

Absolutely not, and being bi-curious doesn’t even necessarily mean a man is bisexual—the same goes for females. Curiosity may have been what ‘killed the cat’ but it’s certainly what make swinging so much fun! It is completely normal and for men to be curious about sexual relations with others of the same sex.

Why Being a Bi-curious Male is Totally Normal

Some straight men—and likely always will be—may be curious about being intimate with another man…what it feels like…how a male’s semen tastes compared to a woman’s etc. In fact, the practice of male on male intimacy is almost as old as recorded history itself. After all what do you think all those ancient Roman men were doing all day in those baths around the forum? Bi-curious attractions and bisexuality has been around for ages and doesn’t seem to be going anywhere.

Tips for Bi-curious Swinging Men

When swinging with a partner or by yourself, make sure to include that you’re bi-curious on your swingers profile. This will let other know you’re open to explore and see where things lead. Make sure to discuss boundaries in detail with your play partners before deciding to move forward. The lifestyle is open to like minded people and welcoming to all whether online or when visiting a swingers clubs where you’ll likely find a couple open-minded to your bi-curious tendencies.

How Do Lesbian Swingers Connect In & Out The Lifestyle?

Let’s clarify straight away: most lesbians are not known for delving very heavily into the swinging scene. That’s not to say that these women don’t enjoy the company of a …READ MORE

4 WAYS TO HAVE EXCITING MMF THREESOMES

In the swingers lifestyle, threesomes are one of the most beloved ways that partnerships blossom by inviting a third into the bedroom. The sexuality and gender of the participants might impact how one approaches a MMF threesome, which has two…

BISEXUAL SWINGERS: WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO BE BISEXUAL

There are a lot of Bisexual Swingers in the lifestyle. Find out what it really means to be bisexual. Bisexual individuals are spread all over the world and live in all areas of the society. They are known for their attraction for people of both genders and they can be both, females and males. Along with the attraction, romantic feelings can be involved and the individual that a bisexual may be attracted to does not necessarily have to be heterosexual. While swingers can enjoy having sex with the members of READ MORE

BDSM Verbal and Non-Verbal Safe Words

November 16, 2022Swingers ResourcesBDSM, BDSM lifestyle, BDSM play, BDSM safe words, safe wordsswingersdotorgadmin

In the world of BDSM play, things can get a bit tricky when it comes to communicating whether you like it or are comfortable with the scene, or if you want your dominant to ease up or stop entirely.

BDSM safe words should be short, simple and to the point, but in some scenes it may be important to for some non-verbal safe words. We’ll cover some of the basics of creating safe words and actions in the BDSM lifestyle.

Tips for Choosing a Safe Word

Those in the lifestyle who love getting extra kinky will want to have a safe word that is memorable for both partners. Make sure to have a conversation on what the safe word would be before the start of any scene. Try to use a word or phrase that is meaningful and easy to speak and that can be easily understood over groans, smacks, zaps or whatever sounds occur during play time.

Many choose words that don’t naturally come up in kink or sex scenarios, and food items are popular. Pineapples, bananas, apples and such are good choices. Some couples choose celebrity’s names as safe words, as they are unlikely to come up during sex for any other reason.

Choosing Non-Verbal Safe Words

Non-verbal safe words are essentially safe signals that serve as alternatives to safe words that most be voiced. They serve the same purpose, but they are a communication tool that is put in place for those into certain kinks like face sitting and or being gagged. Non-verbal cues are also useful for those who might have a hard time expressing their wants and needs during kink.

Common safe-signals include double-tapping their partners leg or head or shaking their head, and some may drop a held object like a small ball. If there are plans to include restrictive bondage, it’s a good idea to choose a non-verbal safe word that doesn’t involve those body parts.

In BDSM Play, Safe Word is a Must

Unless you and your partner are no-holds barred kinksters, having some type of safe word or safety signal in place is the best way to prevent issues and injury for all involved. While you may never feel the need to use it, having one in place can ease fears when playing a bit rough in the bedroom.

The Joys of BDSM

To most people, the idea of BDSM seems like a twisted way to love. Some have a perception that it is an activity meant for people who like to …

SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL – THE GOLDEN RULE OF THE BDSM LIFESTYLE

There’s nothing wrong with wanting a bit of kink in your sexual relationships and this is particularly the case in the BDSM lifestyle. While it’s not for everyone, even those involved in bondage, submission and dominance play have rules to…

HOW TO BECOME A DOMINANT IN THE BDSM LIFESTYLE

“50 Shades of Grey” has made the BDSM lifestyle more mainstream. As such, more people are exploring their sexuality and coming clean about their kinks and fetishes. If you have always wanted to be a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle, you may wonder what steps you need to take to make this happen. Here are a few of the steps you need to follow to become a dominant in this lifestyle. Determine What Kinks and Fetishes You Want to Explore Before you can become a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle, READ MORE

Ice Breakers for First Time Swinger Meet Ups

July 7, 2022Swingers ResourcesSwinger Meet and Greet, swinger meet up, swingers, swingers lifestyle, swingingswingersdotorgadmin

Entering into the swingers lifestyle is sure to provide some good times, but those first time swinger meet & greet opportunities can be challenging. Unless you’re an outgoing individual who is accustomed to meeting new people and enjoying social gatherings, you might want to be prepared with a few of these tips and tricks on how to break the ice at an upcoming event.

Do Some Initial Research

One of the best ways to alleviate anxiety about swinger meet ups is to do a bit of research about the event you are planning to attend. Doing so can help you be prepared for the festivities, which is important if the swingers meet & greet is themed. If any questions aren’t clarified in the invite or on the organizer’s website, don’t hesitate to call and make some inquiries to get yourself in the right headspace for a successful experience.

Avoid Excessive Drinking

While imbibing a drink to get relaxed before heading off to a swinging meet-up is reasonable, don’t use excessive alcohol or intoxicants to relieve stress. There’s a big difference in having a bit of liquid courage and showing up as a sloppy drunk to meet a bunch of people you don’t know. These types of events are best navigated when sober, so you are present both physically and mentally during the experience.

Avoid Being a Fly on the Wall

While it’s perfectly fine to sit on the sidelines for a bit to evaluate the scene after arriving, not much action is likely to happen if you don’t engage with others at the event. Being a fly on the wall or glued to a chair all night can actually make you look unapproachable to other swinging attendees.

Remember, if you are nervous, you are likely not alone. There are others there who are possibly first timers too, so socializing with them can offer an immediate connection. After all, everyone who is at the meet and greet is there for the same reason—to have fun with like-minded people.

Don’t Be Afraid to Separate

If you’re bringing a partner to the event, it’s perfectly acceptable to go the divide and conquer route. Just be sure to have set rules in place between yourselves to avoid any miscommunications or experiencing a deal-breaker incident.

Read the room to find someone you might want to play with, and be mindful in approaching them respectfully. With both partners actively working the room, it will take far less time to get into the action. However, this might not work for all couples, and some other swingers might feel more comfortable engaging with other couples in unison from the get-go.

Ready to Get Swinging?

Make the most out of your first event with these tips to make connections in one night that can be life changing. With that in mind, baby steps are okay. Not all swinging friendships start with sex right away, but getting a good start at a meet-up can lead to future get-togethers where nothing is taboo.

WAYS TO MEET PEOPLE FOR GROUP SEX

Group sex may be an exciting addition to your sex life and especially so if you and/or your partner are into the unconventional and kinky. Group sex may feature in your lifestyle and sexual preferences or may just be an item you eager to cross off that long bucket list. Either way, a good start to making a reality of it is in finding participants; consenting adults, willing to come out and play. Finding group sex participants may be particularly challenging, especially in a rigidly conservative society that unanimously READ MORE

Meet New Lifestyle Couples Using Swinger Chatrooms

Online dating is quickly becoming the new norm for meeting like minded people, and swinger chatrooms is a great place to start. Not everyone involved in the swingers lifestyle is… READ MORE

HOW TO MEET OTHERS IN THE SWINGERS LIFESTYLE ONLINE WITHOUT WASTING TIME

In an app-fueled world, there’s no shortage of folks tapping and swiping away in search for a playmate. The problem that most swingers have with apps is essentially finding the right one to meet someone on their level, and each…

It’s not unnatural for people to have anxiety about certain aspects of sex, their own body or even their partner from time to time. However, in the swingers lifestyle, feeling a bit nervous about initial encounters can be prevalent.

Performance anxiety can prevent our bodies from responding in the way we hope when it comes down to playtime sessions and staying aroused—or getting there—may become challenging.

Singles and couples should consider the following to fully overcome lifestylw insecurities and boost confidence at lifestyle parties or with new partners in private settings.

Bypass Sexual Insecurities

One or two not so great experiences may be signs of sexual fears and barriers that impede having the best time possible. However, these methods and practices can boost esteem and make you a standout at lifestyle clubs and other personal interactions when swinging.

Do a Little Research

Are you dry, suffering from erectile dysfunction or having trouble peaking in bed? A little online research can help you dive into the causes of these issues, as can consulting with a medical provider who can help discover if there’s a physical source of the problem.

Build Confidence

Grow self-esteem through self talk and don’t hesitate to reach out to your primary partner about these concerns. Their understanding can be very reassuring. Consider including more physical exercise in daily activities which can boost libido, body confidence and increase longevity.

Try Soft Swapping During Swingers Playtime

Sometimes the pressure of feeling the need for a full swap can result in anxiety, especially for newer exchanges. Sometimes, easing into the scene with a soft swap with one new partner at a time can be comforting, as these don’t necessarily require an erection or a performance. It can involve touching, kissing, caressing and massaging rather than full on sex.

Employ a Few Toys

Toys are commonplace at many lifestyle parties, as they can help everyone get into the mood. Why not bring them into your everyday life or swinging partnerships for a bit of a morale booster? Should you not be in the mood, a good selection of toys can save the experience, ensuring a good time is had by all.

Take Care of Yourself First

If getting going is a struggle, you can head to the bathroom to get a rev in your step so to speak with a bit of masturbation, deep breathing or visual work. Some enjoy masturbating in front of partners, but others might find privacy more reassuring. If staying hard longer is a concern, get yourself off first to increase stamina for the real deal.

Divide and Conquer

If performance anxiety is associated with performing in front of a current partner or strangers in lifestyle clubs, head to a separate room with swingers playmates. This means you aren’t being analyzed, nor is your lovemaking style, so dividing it up can be beneficial in certain situations.

Remember, our bodies are often unpredictable and may not always do what we want when we want. Try these helpful tips for easing sexual performance anxiety and find more pleasure ultimately in the swingers lifestyle and in your everyday relationship.

What If You Can’t Perform In Group Sex?

Group sex is not new. It has been and a good number of people have taken part in it at one point or another. There are just some that fully… READ MORE

SWINGERS AND PERFORMANCE ANXIETY

Have you seen those impotence ads on the television? It is usually an older, married couple. The next commercial is usually and ad for hair restoration. You notice that most the men in the ads seem to be older?…

SAME ROOM VS SEPARATE ROOM WHEN COUPLE SWAPPING

Along with threesomes, couple swapping is often a key component of relationships for those involved in the swinging lifestyle. However, there is always an underlying question that arises with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms? In short, the answer depends on the participant’s preferences. Let’s get under the sheets a bit in both scenarios and explore the differences between both experiences. Swinging with Partners in the Same Room Many couples enter the swinging lifestyle because they get turned READ MORE

Get Tempted at Allures Tropical SEXcapade in Costa Rica

Hedonism My Frisky Business Resort Trip

Get Wild on an East African Safari Adventure

Take a Swingers Cruise to the Western Caribbean on the Celebrity Equinox

Does Being Bi-curious Make One Gay?

Why Being a Bi-curious Male is Totally Normal

Tips for Bi-curious Swinging Men

Tips for Choosing a Safe Word

Choosing Non-Verbal Safe Words

In BDSM Play, Safe Word is a Must

Do Some Initial Research

Avoid Excessive Drinking

Avoid Being a Fly on the Wall

Don’t Be Afraid to Separate

Ready to Get Swinging?

Head for the Rear…But Don’t Forget the Rest of the Body

Hands, Paddles & Whips…Oh My!

Mix It Up: Alternate Between Spanks, Rubs & Squeezes

Really Want to Know How Your Sub Gets Their Pleasure?

What is Double Penetration?

Approaching & Preparing for DP With a Partner

How to Prepare for DP

DP Starter Tips

Be Prepared for Planned or Spontaneous Outdoor Sex

Avoid Probing Eyes, Cameras and Don’t Get Caught!

Some Location Ideas for Outdoor Sex

Popular Sex Positions for Outdoor Sex

Keeping Your Identity a Mystery Until Sharing Feels Right

Protecting Email Accounts and Phone Numbers

Preventing Images From Doxxing Your Info

Why Choose Swingers Chatrooms?

Find People With Similar Interests: Search Online Chat Rooms

Quick Tips for Wisely Using Swinger Chats

Bypass Sexual Insecurities