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Double Penetration – Explore A New Lifestyle Kink

If things get stale in the bedroom or it’s just time to try something new with your  partner, one of the most popular lifestyle kinks involves a sexual act called double penetration, or DP for short. However, DP isn’t just for those with an alternative lifestyle, as many people enjoy it as a part of their vanilla lifestyle with their monogamous partner.

Let’s explore what it is, what it involves and some tips for getting started with doubling up on sexual fun.

What is Double Penetration?

DP is the act of penetrating two openings in a sexual way, most typically the anus and the vagina. Double penetration can also involve inserting two body parts or sex toys into a single opening simultaneously. The versatile possibilities allow lifestyle couples to involve multiple partners or two people and a few toys—and can even be possible with one person with multiple toys or a dual-headed dildo.

Receiving penetration in the anus and vagina at the same time gives the receiver a feeling of fulness while creating a greater sense of tightness for the givers. This act can also stimulate the g-spot and the prostate for mind-blowing sexual pleasure.

Next, we’ll discuss what you need to proceed with DP and explore some tips for success.

Approaching & Preparing for DP With a Partner

When you’re ready to experiment with this type of play, there are a few key steps of ensuring a good time is had by all. It all starts with communication between participants. What are each person’s expectations, what do they want to experience, what are their fears, will others participate?

With those issues covered and a mutual agreement in place—including a safe word—it’s time to gather up the right tools for a comfortable and gratifying DP experience.


How to Prepare for DP

Once rules have been set in place, get ready for the experience with a few tools of the trade. In addition to any protection against pregnancy or STD, one will want to get lots of body-safe silicone or water-based lube. Anyone wanting to use toys will need to let the receiver of the DP an array of sizes and shapes of phallic-like dongs and plugs to explore with solo before the first attempt at double penetration. If role playing, BDSM or other fantasies are to be acted out, obtain supplies to make it possible!

DP Starter Tips

Participants should begin with foreplay such as finger or toy insertion in one orifice before trying out two in order to loosen up the receiver and increase their comfort level for something larger. During the double penetration, several approaches can be explored. A vibrator and an anal plug or a partner’s member or a dildo attached to a harness are good starting points.

Some lifestyle couples introduce a second partner for MFM or FMF double penetration exploits. Remember, this can involve two insertions into one hole or a combination of both, so the possibilities with toys and other playmates open the doors for a whole world of exploration! Don’t forget that aftercare is a perfect way to end a DP session and encourage opportunities for future experiences.

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A Guide for Swinger Parties

A Guide for Swinger Parties                       Swinger parties are somewhat different from swinger clubs as these parties tend to be more intimate. They are normally organized by lifestyle couples or singles in their home or at a special venue.

If you plan on attending a swinger party, it may be a good idea to be prepared so you have an idea of what to expect. Know what times the party starts, the theme, if you have to bring your own alcohol and mixers, will they be serving food or do you need to eat before you go. It can be boring sometimes to arrive at the party and wait for the other couples to show up. Things like this will happen if you do not prepare.

Early preparation is the best thing to avoid unnecessary embarrassments. You can either be a guest or a host and here is a guide for such a party.

Preparing For a Party

Do some research on the venue before the actual time of the party if this will be your first time there. Try and find out the specifications of the swinger party and know what is expected from you. Make sure your attire is appropriate for the occasions and make sure to do some personal grooming before attending the party in case you decide to play.

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There are some preparations that should be made whether you are a guest or a host of a swinger party. First, there should be condoms. Try and look for different types of condoms so that all the people who are involved will be happy and comfortable because they get to choose their brand. Besides, as a guest, it’s recommended that you bring your brand of condoms so you will not be worried when they are exhausted.

It is also a good idea to have some food. There are some instances where the party extends for a very long time. This means that if you don’t have some food, you will not even concentrate on the party. You can have light food that will be easier and convenient to carry and this will keep you active throughout the party.

Finally, you should have some alcoholic drinks at the party. If you are the host, you have to organize and if you are a guest, you can carry some to the venue. This will make other people get loose and want to engage with others for your party will be a success.