For many years swingers have always kept a low profile about their lifestyle because it’s a lifestyle not accepted by society. Swingers usually keep a low profile, not because they are ashamed of their lifestyle, but because they are afraid of how the public may perceive them. Just like any other lifestyle that is not widely accepted, swinging is also treated with hostility, fear discomfort and suspicion.
The public has a very negative perception on the swinging culture and as a result, swingers usually choose to keep a low profile. The concept of keeping a low profile has been in existence for a long period of time and will probably be around until the public starts appreciating swinging as a separate lifestyle which needs to be respected just like any lifestyle. Happiness in the lifestyle usually stays constant when people involved in this lifestyle keep a low profile.
Although swingers have all the reasons to keep their lifestyle to themselves, it is better for them to share this information with their family and close friends. The best way to do this is by reaching out to their close friends and family member and explain to them about their lifestyle. However, this is also a challenge to swingers especially if they suspect that the family or close friends will not take the idea positively.
But how can you be sure that the next person or couple sitting next to you are swingers? Discovering a swinger is actually a big challenge but the good news is that there are a few things that can help you identify a fellow swinger. The first tip that can help you locate a fellow swinger is to keep talking if you suspect you’re having a conversation with a swinger. Then bring the topic of swinging casually and carefully observe his/her reaction. Most of the time when you bring up the topic of swinging to swingers they will have a strong reaction regarding the topic because they are afraid of being discovered. If you notice that the person acts uncomfortably or try’s to avoid the topic then chances are that you are talking to a fellow swinger.
In addition, when talking to a swinger, there are certain thing about swinging that will pop up during your conservation. If you notice that the person you are talking to seem to know more about swinging but he/she try’s to pretend or avoid the topic then chances are that you are talking to a swinger. However, it is quite easy to identify couples who are swingers. All that you need to do is to watch how they look at other couples and individuals. If you notice that they look at each other the way a single person would, then chances are that they are swingers.