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The Voyeur Fetish in Swinging Explained

Watching others engage in intimacy and sex acts can be a powerful stimulator comparable to direct participation. Hence, the rise in demand for pornographic films and photos. However, voyeurs are common in the swinging lifestyle and can enjoy more variety in their sex life through mere observation.

What Is Voyeurism?

Voyeurism involves receiving sexual gratification by watching others who are undressing, naked, or participating in sexual activity. Those in the swingers lifestyle understand the importance of consent and boundaries before engaging in this fetish. The rewards with an agreeable partner can transform your sex life tremendously.

4 Ways to Practice Voyeurism In the Lifestyle

When a couple or group in the lifestyle agree to consensual voyeurism, it can become a respectful and responsible way to spice things up in bed or at playrooms.

Here are some of the top ways voyeurs indulge themselves.

1. Observe Your Partner Masturbating

If they are comfortable with it, ask your partner to masturbate or put on a show for you. Some like to hide nearby and watch, while others prefer being visible and making special requests to the other person. When observing, pay attention to how their body reacts, and attempt to incorporate some of those special moves into your routine sex life.

2. Watch a Bit of Live Video Porn

There are many websites that specialize in catering to voyeurs of all tastes. Masturbation, soft porn, LGBTQ-friendly and a variety of fetish categories. This is the best way to be a watcher from a distance.

3. Role Playing

Envision a role play scenario where you get to be a voyeur watching your partner or allow them to watch you if they like. Be sure to discuss with your partner to get permission and to see if it’s a turn on for them, too. Sometimes a sexy dance in lingerie or a hot shower scene can drive one over the top and open the doors to other ventures.

4. Watch Your Partner Be Intimate With Someone Else

Swingers and those in open relationships (or are considering it) might consider allowing their partner to have a soft or hard swap with another person. You might want to find another couple to play with, but be sure to have set rules and boundaries defined before making such arrangements.

Places to Indulge in Voyeuristic Fantasies

There are plenty of places to watch and be watched enjoying sexual relations. If you prefer to not be physically present to watch, check out online swingers sites, where many voyeurs can be found.

Swingers clubs often have special rooms with windows where others can watch those inside. Swinger resorts and cruises are often clothing optional, and nudity in and of itself can be a fetish. Should you want to go further, voyeur and swinger parties may take place locally, most of which are by invitation only.

This short guide can get you started in the world of watching and being watched. Remember, set firm guidelines with committed partners before participating in this swingers lifestyle realm.

SWINGERS FETISH

No matter who you are everyone has their own fetish, just as all swingers have their own fetish.  Sure Mike Hatcher might like to watch a wife being led around by a dog collar for a gang bang; you know something romantic like that, whereas others have a different fetish.  There are many possible versions of swinger fetishism, as they may apply to the lifestyle of swingers.  Generally swingers can be defined as couples that are living together, possibly married, and share an open relationship as a couple.  This is… READ MORE

Voyeurism: Most Swingers Enjoy Being Watched!

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All You Need To Know About Hotel Swinger Parties

All You Need To Know About Hotel Swinger PartiesIn the midst of all the excitement in the swinging world, private hotel swinger parties rarely get mentioned. But contrary to popular belief, these parties are very popular with hard core swingers. It is worth mentioning that a huge majority of these groups prefer posting their event announcements online but in private forums or groups. Due to this, most of the time the moderator or owner of the group will have to approve your membership before you gain access to the group and its meetings. There are groups which will even demand to know you personally before allowing you to join them.

Just like any other swing party, before you decide to attend a hotel party you must ensure that your relationship with your partner is well grounded, secure and rock solid. If you are new to the experience and doubts and fears start to creep in, just take a deep breath and relax. Keep in mind that all swingers were once in your position. Naturally, most swingers are extremely friendly to newcomers and they will happily go out of their way to ensure that you are comfortable and relaxed. They can answer any of your questions, introduce you to their friends and offering you any vital information you may need.

It should be noted from the onset that unlike a public club where there is no feeling of obligation, hotel parties are a different ballgame. This is because most of the attendees in such parties are usually there to have sex that night, either with someone else or with each other. For this reason, this is not an ideal place for voyeurs because if you are not there to play you may start feeling as if you are in the way of others. In such parties, many of the couples who attend such parties usually have the wife as the main center of attraction, most of them like playing and they find hotel parties as the place where it all happens.

All You Need To Know About Hotel Swinger PartiesInterestingly, many couples who have adopted the swinging lifestyle don’t like fraternizing with single guys. Many swingers believe that the single guys who come to such parties are either in a relationship or are married and are therefore cheating on their partners. Most couples also feel that single guys only have themselves to offer, this is especially so with boyfriends or husbands who consider their partners as possessions. It is worth noting though that they usually don’t have any problems with single ladies. With hotel parties, a lot of single guys and a lower number of single guys are usually invited. Even though each party may have its own reasons for having such an arrangement, the driving force is usually financial gain or the need for lots of action if not both.

Even though you can attend a small hotel swinger party with 8 or 9 couples, some ladies and single guys and greatly increase your chances of having sex by as much as ninety percent (90%); it is possible to attend a large club party with 600 couples and fail to connect with anyone. Seasoned swingers usually prefer private house parties or small hotel parties because of the orgasm factor. Swingers like achieving orgasms from a variety of sources and private parties tend to offer the intimacy required to get an orgasm for most of them. Those who also tend to fantasize about orgies and gang bangs also have a higher chance of succeeding in a smaller set up than in a bigger club.

The beauty of hotel swinger parties though is the laid back swinging experience and relaxed atmosphere which it offers participants. You won’t have to dress skimpily, get overly worried about your shape or age factor, everyone is more relaxed. Because a non-club setting is more intimate, the comfort levels are heightened and it is much easier to strike a conversation with one another. In hotel parties, it is not uncommon to find swingers split from their partners so as to play in a different room. People also tend to know one another in such settings.

Most hotel swinger parties are usually geared towards swingers who are keen on having lots of sex. So if you are just starting out in the lifestyle then it is advisable to start out with something different first because such a party may overwhelm you if you are doing it for the first time.

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Swinger Party/Club Etiquette Guidelines

Swinger Party/Club Etiquette Guidelines Swinging is a collaboration between couples for sex. It is additionally termed as way of life for open minded people in the swinger’s community. This way of life has attracted couples and even some single dating ladies and men who seek sexual contact with others. The passage to swinger sex gatherings is not as simple as a novice may think. Despite the fact that wife swapping does happens in private houses, it regularly happens in a swinger dating club and at swingers party.

Discovering the right swinger dating club is exceptionally troublesome as they are extremely closeted and private. Some support just elites. If you decide to visit a swinger club or party, there are a few things you should keep in mind.

Swinger’s Etiquette Guide to Events
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  • Dress appropriately. Most clubs have principles and regulation that has a clothing standard – tail it. Visit their website to see if they have a theme night and dress as such.
  • Don’t gaze or stare at others or attempt to impose upon a gathering.
  • Harsh indecent or sexually intoned dialect is not welcome in any club or gatherings. On the off chance that you lean toward this then you will need to structure your own gathering that stimulates such dialect.
  • Continuously be polite to those you are interested in swinging with. They may also be newbies battling with their own particular shakiness and nervousness while entering another space.
  • Pay attention to the breaking points and emotions of different couples. In the event that you perceive that a couple is uneasy with the incidents, stop and let them choose whether to proceed or not.
  • In the event that you are not intrigued by a specific swinging circumstance or for reasons unknown you choose to alter your opinion about the whole experience, you have the right to say “No”.
  • Safe sex is the best sex. So keep condoms with you close by and use it generally.
  • Savoring a swinging circumstance can sometimes diminish hindrances, yet overwhelming drinking can influence your sexual execution.
  • Stay far from drugs or other medications, as swinger couples don’t use or support them.

After any swinging session, call the couples you engaged with the following day and express gratitude toward them. This will leave a decent impression in their personalities, which could help you get welcomed back and/or alluded to companions.