Having two males in bed together can be exciting for the woman of a swinger couple. A Male Female Male threesome is most commonly referred to as MFM encounters in the lifestyle. This means that the woman is typically ‘the center of attention” and gets to play with both men, but there is no interactions between the two males of the threesome.
Finding the ideal man to add to your triad should involve open and honest communication between couple, so you can find someone where everyone is comfortable. We’re offering a few tips to help you make the best choice.
Determining What You Want in a Second Male Partner
You and your partner will want to jot down what the most important character and traits for their new addition. Discuss any details about what you’re both looking for which includes a number of factors. Experienced swinger couples likely already know what their preferences are so at this point its just a vetting process.
Are Appearances Important to You?
Do you want a hot and sexy man to challenge your senses? Or is a fairly typical man ideal for your MFM threesomes? This is a great starting point for choosing a man to join in your playtime.
Do You Prefer Gentle or Passionate Lovers?
Sometimes, couples are into cuddling and kissing, while others may find it too personal. Some couples may even go as far as having a no kissing rule as that may be a bit too intimate. However, if you want passion along with pleasure, find a man who has that to offer and discuss the rules beforehand with all parties involved.
Do You Want Some Kinky BDSM Action?
More people are into bondage and other fetishes than you might realize. If you want a like-minded male partner, make sure to clarify that. You don’t want to catch a man off guard with floggers, ropes and other gear that could be triggering for him. Set guidelines and get permission.
Should the Man Be Bisexual or Straight?
With the woman taking the middle position, the two men may prefer not to engage with each other sexually. Yet, if both men are bisexual or even bi-curious, the experience can get even more interesting on a broader scope and definitely bring forth some excitement to Male Female Male threesomes.
Do You Want Someone to Talk & Flirt with You & Your Partner?
Some swingers couples prefer the silent, anonymous type, while others may want someone comfortable enough to have a conversation before or after their encounter. You’ll likely be able to identify the person’s social habits during your first phone or internet conversation.
Additional Planning Concepts
You’ll want to determine a few things before heading for the gusto, including:
- How soon do you and your partner want to make this meet-up happen?
- Who will host the festivities, or will you meet at a hotel?
- Will you consider meeting up with the man again, or is it a one-time affair?
Make the Night One To Remember
Whether it’s your first MFM or not, make things extra special at the designated meet-up point. If it’s your home or a hotel room, set the mood with some candles, massage oil, music etc. Otherwise, pack a goodie bag with your mood makers and get ready for a ‘sex’sational MFM time.
Different types of threesomes and the benefits
Many couples get a bit bored with their sex life and start thinking about options to spice it up. For many people the idea of a threesome comes to …
WHY WOMEN LOVE CREAMPIES IN A THREESOME WITH TWO MEN
Women love experimenting and when it comes to sex they just want to test their limits. Having one man satisfy you is just not as thrilling as having two or more men attend to you. Threesomes are now becoming…
FFM THREESOMES DEBATE: SHE WANTS A BUTCH…HE WANTS A FEM
Even the strongest couples amid the swingers lifestyle can run into differences concerning their preferences when it comes to play time. Fortunately, most of them can be worked out, including situations in which the couple wants an FFM threesome but their tastes in women varies tremendously. It’s more common than you think, and it’s typically that she wants a butchy woman while he wants the ultra-hot fem. Read on to explore some ways to find resolution acceptable for everyone. Who’s Sleeping With Her Anyway? In an FFM arrangement, there is READ MORE