Threesomes are awesome to people who are used to having them but may not be so for those trying them out for the first time. It is therefore vital that you empathize with your options or role when it comes to the variety of things you can engage in when swinging as a threesome. Feeling flighty and uneasy is quite normal for first timers in swinging and especially when it is a threesome since they do not have an idea what their role is. Relief will however come to you once you know how to deal with the process and start experiencing the fun you have been missing out on.
Be the Good Student
Being a student is always interesting particularly when learning from a competent teacher. It will therefore be more interesting for you to follow the steps of an experienced person and get sucked in gradually. This will get you adapting comfortably and attaining the level of confidence required to ensure you are enjoying the most out the threesome. You can then pick from the learning point to being fully active once you come to terms with what the threesome entails and at what point you need to exchange roles resulting in you having a really good time.
Ask to Call the Shots
We always want to be leaders at some point and therefore you taking the lead in the threesome may boost your freakishness which will in turn ensure you enjoy the moment. Do not try something weird if you are not certain about it but rather do things normally and make sure not to perform on one partner more than the other as it may cause uneasiness. Adrenalin boost and sensual stimulation will be easily achieved once you take the leadership role and roll out your ultimate good time strategy.
Have a Blast
Swinging and threesomes are all about having a good time and the sex experience that you don’t get on a daily basis. Like in normal sex engagements, your mind should be ‘all in’ and not wandering with negative thoughts as they will prevent you from having the bliss you are supposed to. You can also ask your partners to experiment your thoughts and theirs to see the pleasure they can yield. Finally ensure all of you get an equal share of each other to facilitate activeness of all partners.Make each swinging threesome a memorable experience and not one filled with anxiety and nerve triggering instances.