To Shave Or Not To Shave

To Shave Or Not To ShaveIf you ever watched porn, you would notice that over the past decade, everybody in the porn industry had shaven or closely trimmed privates. Now in the 21st century, well-kept genitalia are fashionable, especially among swingers. It’s now more common for everyone to shave and some men are also embracing this idea. So much so, that waxing centers are popping up all over for that smooth shave.

There are a ton of options to choose from and choosing different styles and shapes to might actually be pretty fun. There are: the bold, the landing strip, heart shapes, triangles, or even V shapes. It can be a complete turn on for men and women alike because of increased sensation especially during oral pleasures. Some go as far as getting their pubic hair surgically removed with electrolysis. If you’re considering it, make sure it’s what you absolutely want because it’s expensive, painful, and permanent.

Now before you get out your razor and shaving cream, you might want to remember your first time. You may have experienced the agony of red bumps and in-grown hairs. If you have, Here are a few tips to help with your first shave:

To Shave Or Not To ShaveTips for the perfect shave:

  • Ask your partner for a little help. If they’re too busy, use a mirror. (For best results, don’t shave in the shower.)
  • Trim all excess hair with a pair of scissors. (Don’t use an electric razor.)
  • Once you’ve trimmed enough hair, apply some shaving cream.
  • Use a good razor with a new blade. You may need to change the blade before you’ve finished so keep that in mind.
  • Shave with the grain first, then against the grain. This cuts down razor burn and eliminates In-grown hairs.
  • This also makes the skin extra smooth.
  • Shave gently around folds.
  • Once you’re happy with the results, rinse with cold water and pat dry with a clean towel.
  • Apply zinc oxide afterwards if your skin is feeling sensitive.

Once you begin shaving, it’s best to incorporate it into your daily grooming routine. That way you won’t have to deal with the prickly sensation you feel when you haven’t shaved in a long time. If daily shaving seems like it’s too much work, you might want to consider waxing.

If, however, you’re still undecided, take my advice and just go for it. It’s hygienic, a lot of fun, and your partners will love it. So pick up a razor, some shaving cream, and get busy. After all, the only thing you have to lose is your hair.

Positive Effects of Double Penetration

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double penetrationMany couples are looking to spice things up a bit in the bedroom and every man and woman have some kind of fantasy that they want to act out. Double penetration is one of those fantasies and it can either be a woman’s or a man’s fantasy. In order to properly do double penetration all of the participants should be on board with the act. You don’t want someone to do something that they don’t want to do or that will be rape. Double penetration can happen in a few different ways. One is where two men are involved and the woman is penetrated vaginally and anally, or the mouth can be used as well, or a sex toy can be used if there is only one man.

It is fun to try new things but it can be scary to try this kind of act, so you want to go slow with it and maybe even work your way up to it. In recent studies it has been shown that more woman are becoming more adventurous with their sex lives and more women are even trying taboo things like anal sex more than what they did before. Many have also found out that women can reach orgasm during anal sex, which makes it more appealing to them. So basically if a woman knows that they can orgasm from having anal sex then they are more willing to at least try it.

double penetration 2Studies have also shown that women that have tried double penetration are more likely to have a vaginal orgasm than ones that are just having intercourse vaginally. And when you are the woman in the double penetration, you get all of the attention, unlike other threesomes with another woman. There is a good chance that you can have an orgasm anally and vaginally with is double the fun for woman and the men of the group.

Once all of the people that are participating in double penetration agree on all of the ground rules, then they can do it. You have to kind of prepare for something like this especially if you are a woman. And you have to make sure to use enough lubricating so it doesn’t hurt. Nothing can turn a woman off faster when trying something new if it is painful to her. All of the stereotypes of only porn stars doing things like double penetration have gone away because couples are more adventurous today than they were years ago.

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Biggest Orgy At Sea Taking Place November 29th 2015

orgyOn November 29th 2015 the Celebrity Silhouette is going to be home of the biggest orgy at sea. Play rooms have been expanded to include 69 Queen size beds and a 24 hour outdoor play area which is an industry 1st! Could you imagine being able to play 24/7 outside?
Whats more? There is now an added 4 deck clothing optional  area deemed the “Mecca of Nudity”! Starting on Sunday night there is a Roman Orgy toga party so you can party as a gladiator or god! Monday kicks off with another themed event of the Roaring 20’s. Tuesday is a wild west party, Wednesday is a Glow panty rave, Thursday is duct tape party, Friday is a fetish party, ending with a Saturday Holiday strip tease with Elves and Snowmen.
Make sure to check the full scheduled below.:

Sunday: Roman Orgy Toga Party – Dress as Gladiators and Gods. Togas are key for our version of the roman bath.

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Monday: Roaring 20’s Formal Party – Go Formal, 20’s, or both. This speakeasy will be noisy indeed.
Tuesday: Wild Wild West – Sexy never looked this good with Cowboys, Indians and Ladies with Parasols. Giddy Up!
Wednesday: Glow Panty Rave – “Anything glows” in this up-all-night extravaganza.
Thursday: Anti-Formal and ABC (Anything But Clothes) – Duct tape, saran wrap, feathers . . . get creative and come ready to play.
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Friday: Fetish Friday – Get your freak on and show off your wild side.
Saturday: Holiday Tease Party – Elves, Snowmen and Dreidels, have a turn on Santa’s lap (ho, ho, ho).
The worlds largest 5 star swingers cruise keeps getting better with more additions which is why the ship is going to be experiencing a price increase on March 1st due to the ship.
There is a current Valentines special in which those interested should book now as rooms are almost cut off. For more information or booking Visit: Bliss Cruise

 

The Benefits of Swinging

The Benefits of Swinging It is generally known that swingers can fall into two categories, those who participate for recreational purposes and those who participate in swinging for utopian reasons. Recreational swingers view swinging as an activity like playing tennis, cards or bowling. On the other hand, utopian swingers have a philosophy of communitarianism and will wish not only to share sex but also different aspects of life with fellow participants. There is a belief that swinging has a positive effect on marriages and that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy creating a feeling of ownership between a wife and a husband.

Swinging is important in getting rid of this kind of jealousy and helps each person to view each other as individuals and not possession. In most cases married people do not cheat because they want, boring sex is what causes extra marital affairs, swinger couples believe that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another one sexually over an extended period of time. Therefore, swinging is vital in keeping sexual boredom at bay.

There are marriages that have been saved by the lifestyle and observed that swinging strengthens good marriages. There is a deeper psychological reason for swinging. Some men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality, while some women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. The development of a swinging middle class helps people to develop social ties and satisfy their need for sexual fulfillment; moreover, it gives them The Benefits of Swinging an opportunity to do both without disrupting their regular lifestyle.

It is believed that swinging builds a sense of security and self-confidence. Sexual fulfillment, sexual variety, and the potential of fulfilling all your fantasies are some of the benefits off swinging. As a result of new types of sexual experiences, couples can enjoy their marriages more by employing new techniques from the swinger couples parties. Generally, swinging alleviates jealousy because if both partners go to the same party together and thereafter leave together they will realize that they are committed to each other as a couple.

Swinging creates a feeling of person hood rather than an individual or property, moreover it creates strong bonds between couples because the swinger couples can discuss anything from fantasies to fetishes at the party. Women in marriage will receive a great deal of positive reinforcement because they will see themselves as desirable, moreover they can shed their sexual inhibitions and try something different with their partners. Husbands report a high level of marital happiness when they are swinging with their partners moreover they can share any kind of information with their partner without the The Benefits of Swinging fear of losing them.

Apparently swinging has no negative effects on the sexual lives of couples; as a matter of fact, swinging couples have sexual intercourse more than regular couples. According to research, swinger couples have sex more than five times a week when compared to 16% of the general population. Many swingers report that rather than dampening the ardor for each other, swinging causes an arousal of sexual interest on each other. Couples often experience a feeling of closeness, warmth, and love that is more intense after swinging. They can discuss their fears, weakness and how they can improve themselves openly with their partner. Honesty is key in any relationship and swinging promotes couples discussing sexual matters openly.

How Roman and Egyptian Orgies Molded Swinging

How Roman and Egyptian Orgies Molded Swinging     Before the advent of Roman and Egyptian civilizations, orgies were not a common phenomenon. Earlier, there were only groups of people having sex in almost unsophisticated clustering. Many tribal cultures in Egypt and Rome were involved in sexual rituals associated with spring and fertility. However, such stories have not been well-documented.

It took a lot of time before people finally invented a word for group sex. Soon, the childlike fun and excitement of random sex was turned into a societal institution. Egyptians and Romans were quite obsessed with sex. When these people were not busy waging wars, inventing architecture, performing rituals or writing texts, they were involved in group sex and orgies. Since Romans and Egyptians were obsessed with sensuality and sex, orgies were very common among them.

In fact, Romans and Egyptians also had wine and sex deities. However, since they were a bit less pious than other civilizations, they considered orgies to be a social ritual. Orgies in Rome were usually associated with extravagant dinners staged by the powerful and wealthy people of the society.

How Roman and Egyptian Orgies Molded Swinging     People would combine sex with unlimited drinking. Egypt, group sex was not so lavish. It wasn’t just confined to the ‘super’ rich or powerful people.

In today’s society, the swinging lifestyle has become quite popular because of many different reasons. Some of the most popular ones include:

  • Much better quality of sex
  • Having sex more often
  • Increased novelty
  • More possibility for experimentation
  • Adding variety to sexual encounters
  • Fulfilling your fantasies

There are many couples who view the swinging lifestyle and group sex as healthy mediums to reignite the spark in their love lives. It is also believed to have strengthen the bond between partners.

 

Bliss Cruise Offering Swinger Travel Specials

Swingers TravelThe Celebrity Silhouette is all set to sail for the Caribbean on adult-only 7-day adventure trip from November 29 to December 6, 2015. The cruise provides an opportunity for swinger travel with luxury accommodation, and exotic wild orgies where clothing would be completely optional. This swinger’s cruise is high on demand, so book early to reserve your space on board.

The cruise has now expanded play areas and provides every couple an access to the following- 

 

 

  • 24-hour outdoor play area
  • Private Aqua-class play area
  • Biggest Fetish play area
  • Gigantic 4 Deck Clothing Optional Mecca of Nudity (More details soon)
  • A group playroom (largest in universe), with jumbo TVs showcasing adult entertainment and 69 queen beds

Bliss Cruise promises to continually evolve the cruise’s activities so that passengers can meet all their fantasies.

VALENTINES SPECIAL DEAL

You can now save up to $300 (per couple) on certain select balcony cabins. Offer is valid only till Valentine’s Day!!

NIGHTLY THEME SCHEDULE

The Nightly Theme Schedule for the cruise is now released, and is as follows-

Sunday: Go glamorous in Roman Orgy Toga Party! Fake the Gladiators and Gods and experience our version of the ancient roman bath.

Monday: Make some noise in the Roaring 20’s Formal Party – You can go Formal, 20’s, or indeed both.

Tuesday: Show you wild side in Wild Wild West- Get dressed up as Cowboys, Indians & Ladies with Parasols!

Wednesday: Show how big an owl you are at the Glow Panty Rave, an up-all-night extravaganza.

Thursday: Get creative, for the Anti-Formal and ABC (Anything But Clothes) themed night is there. Sad you can’t be naked? Don’t worry, duct tapes, saran wraps, and some feathers would do!

Friday: Fetish Friday- Show your freaking wild side.

Saturday: A Holiday Tease Party where you can get turns on Santa’s lap!

Although it is recommended that you dress up according to the theme, but it is anyways optional! So get set go for this thrilling swinger travel to the Caribbean….

View Specials: HERE

How to Be a Dominatrix

How to Be a Dominatrix

Swingers DatingAs you may already know, “Dominatrix” is a term used to describe a woman that is dominant, be it in a sexual or romantic relationship. Also referred to as a “mistress”, the dominatrix takes the leadership role during sexual intercourse as she dominates the man, who is commonly known as a “slave”. In this case, the man would be considered the submissive in the relationship and abiding by all the rules set by the dominatrix. The two mutually agree on the aspects that are to be controlled, and on the boundaries that ought to be respected.

People often engage in a dominant-submissive relationships because they have a strong urge to be dominated, humiliated (be it sexually, verbally or physically) or because they want to feel powerful. If you are thinking about becoming a dominatrix, here are the steps you need to take:

  1. Set Boundaries 

How to Be a DominatrixThe first and most important thing about being a dominatrix is to understand that there is a limit. Even when your submissive tells you to stop, part of the fun is not stopping and continuing with what you have to do. Some men get off when they feel pain or humiliation, but if you push it too far and you take your dominant side a mile further, this can break the trust and bond you have established with your submissive. Have a safe word that both parties agreed upon, before you start a dominating session. When you, as a dominatrix, hear the safe word – you need to stop what you are doing immediately!

  1. Don’t Be Afraid To Experiment 

Curiosity is perfectly normal, and people will want to experiment sooner or later in life. When engaging in a dominant-submissive relationship, there are many things you can experiment with, as the field of BDSM is quite complex. There are a few things you can try like mouth gags, restraints (handcuffs, ropes), blind folds that will prevent the slave from seeing what’s next, and you may even be interested in checking out some BDSM toys as well. Part of being a good dominatrix is giving pleasure. Both parties involved in a dominant-submissive relationship is supposed to experience pleasure, not just one party.

  1. Dress As A Dominatrix! 

In order to be a dominatrix, you must dress and act like one. However, it is extremely important to know where your role stops – contrary to popular belief, only a very small percentage of those who engage in a slave-master relationship actually play the role on a non-stop basis. While being a dominatrix is still considered as taboo in many countries, in some countries (especially in assigned districts) it is not uncommon to see dominant women walking their slaves down the street.

That being said, it is important to understand the “dress code” that applies to dominant women. You can choose to be on the classy side or you can choose to be on the rough, hardcore side with chains, whips and piercings. Your clothes should be dictated by the extent of your role, by your personality and allure and by your preferences. Generally speaking, dominant women like to wear leather or latex closed coupled with high heel How to Be a Dominatrixstilettos or boots and revealing undergarments.

  1. Role Play

Inside The World Of A Dominatrix shows how some women choose to become dominatrix. Some for fun and the sexual arousal, while others do it for money. Regardless of the reasons, it is very important to stay discrete with all the men (or women) that you meet for dominating sessions. People who engage in BDSM activities usually live perfectly normal and healthy lives, although some of the slaves may be carried away by the entire game and insist on getting more. This is why it is advised to set the boundaries and to avoid revealing personal information. Being a dominatrix is a role play done for pleasure, and that is how it should stay. Everybody has a private life and a public life, and one’s right to a private life should always be respected.

  1. Stay Open-Minded 

One of the most important characteristics of being a dominatrix is your mentality. Try to be as open-minded as possible. Never judge those you have interactions with (especially as a dominatrix), and never underestimate your slave as submissive parts can come from various backgrounds and they can have different academic training.

Want to know how to dominate a dominating woman? Try here: Top tips on dominating a dominant woman

Hedonism Resort, a Secret Swingers Retreat

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Hedonism JamaicaAs a swinger, it is enjoyable to take advantage of lifestyle friendly resorts when deciding where to vacation. Hedonism, Jamaica is one such swinger’s resort that allows you the option of embracing the lifestyle while on their premises. It offers a great all inclusive vacation package so you won’t break the bank when planning your swinger vacation. You should try and book in advance to ensure availability as Hedonism tends to be a lifestyle destination favorite. Failure to book in advance can lead to you being inconvenienced and not enjoying the vacation you had hoped. You can book in advance through their website or contact a swinger travel agent like Topless Travel for upcoming destination events.

Here are some benefits that you will enjoy once you decide to visit a swingers resort.

Swingers Meet & Greets

Making new friends in the lifestyle may be something that is more difficult for you. While visiting a swingers resort, there are multiple Meet & Greets that are helps so swinger couples can get to know each other and connect of a social level before play. Through making new friends, you can easily improve your life with the exchange of new ideas. Some of the bonds and friendship created at these events are long lasting friendships that Hedonism Resortend up making a positive and lasting effect on your social life.

Swinger Parties

Whether you decide to go with a group or just for a romantic get away with your partner, there are great swinger parties that are held on site. If you are in the mood to stay up all night dancing, there are live music and entertainment, or you can visit the worlds famous Club Hurricane for all the latest mix. In addition, you can spend all your night while dancing to good music at the nightly themed events that are held for swingers where the party extends to their onsite playrooms. In case you like singing there is also a place where you will be able to play piano. As a way of breaking the monotony of your everyday routine attending any one of the swinger parties or events at the swingers resort will lead to an erotic experience.

Spa and Massage Services

A vacation wouldn’t be complete without some time for relaxation and rejuvenation. After attending a swinger’s events at Hedonism Resort, the Spa is the best place for you to recoup. There are spa and massage services offered by highly experienced experts that you can utilize at the resort. Make it a couples experience with a couples massage by the beach. This is a great way for you and your partner to unwind and experience such pleasure together. The massage services is also a great way to overcome any stress that hedo-massageyou may be experiencing.

Adult Excursions

In case you are a fan of water-skiing or windsurfing, these are some of the activities you will also enjoy while at the resort. They also expose you to different tourist attractions and excursions such as naked volleyball, skinny dipping in the ocean, snorkeling, scuba diving or glass bottom boat rides. It will be a great fun filled adventure that you get to experience with other swingers. If you have never participated in any of these activities before, not to worry, there are instructors on site that will help to get you started and allow you the chance to enjoy the game. Engaging in these excursions is also a great way to get to know others while visiting a swingers resort.

Top 10 Nude Beaches For Swingers In Florida

Swingers In Florida Nude BeachesIf you want to get a natural, uniform tan without having to worry about those unaesthetic tan lines, then you should take nude beaches into account – leave your inhibitions at home and get a nice, even tan! Besides, you don’t even have to spend money on a new swimsuit, since you won’t need it here!

Rules and regulations vary from one state to another (and even from one beach to another), if you plan on visiting a nude beach. This is why we highly recommended that you check the local ordinance changes before getting undressed. Having said that, here are the top 10 nude beaches in Florida:

1. Hobe Sound Beach

The Hobe Sound Beach is somewhat exclusive given the fact that it is surrounded by mansions of various Hollywood stars and famous singers – as a matter of fact, on this beach you can see lots of celebrities and VIPs who go to sunbathe. The beach is not crowded at all and it is ideal if you are looking for a discreet nude beach with a secluded little piece of sand.

2. Playalinda Beach

If you simply want to escape the hustle and bustle of the big city, then the Playalinda Beach is certainly a great choice. This is one of the most popular choices for nudists, as the white sandy beaches and the crystal clear waters attracts many people each day. However, it must be mentioned that there are not many restroom facilities around Playalinda Beach, and this may be a bit of an inconvenience for some. Get your sun lotion and your tanning kit and be ready to enjoy a sunny afternoon on this nude beach in Florida!

3. The Haulover Beach 

Florida Swingers Nude Beaches Known by all Florida Swingers, most attend this beach before heading out to Trapeze swingers club. Are you tired of those nosy teenagers who always carry binoculars with them to stare at you while sunbathing naked? Then the Haulover Beach is certainly the best beach to go. Here you can find designated nude bathing areas where you do not have to worry about anything and anybody – just be yourself and enjoy the nature at its fullest! This is why the beach is always crowded and full of people of all ages and body types.

4. The Apollo Beach 

Naturalists have been going to Apollo Beach for decades to sunbathe nude, and that is no longer a secret for anyone. Disrobing is tolerated here, as long as beach goers do not interfere with the other people around. This beach is also relatively close to Daytona, where nudists can find lodging that is especially designed for them!

5. St. Lucia Inlet State Preserve

This beach is close to the first nude beach on this list – Hobe Sound. However, it must be mentioned that this area is not especially designated for nude bathing, therefore you are disrobing at your own risk.

6. South Beach

Both naturalists and nudists can sunbathe on South Beach without the hassles! The beach is actually very welcoming with a partying and care-free atmosphere are in the air. However, the clothing-related laws vary, so just do what the others do! Here you can find many special nudist-friendly sun bathing areas to choose from.

Swingers in Florida Nude Beaches7. The Gulf Islands National Seashore

The Gulf Islands National Seashore is somewhat deserted, and this aspect has attracted nudists for many years. The area is very discreet and secluded with many nudists visiting on a yearly basis.

8. The Navarre Beach

The Navarre Beach is by far one of the most popular nudist beaches in Florida. However, the daily security patrol sets the disrobing rules, so they vary day to day, this is why caution is advised. Keep your clothes next to you if you plan on sunbathing naked on Navarre Beach, just in case the patrol comes!

9. John D. MacArthur Beach State Park

This Park is situated near the Air Force Base, where nudists frequented three decades ago. Even though the place is not specially designated for nudists, naturalists and nudists still visit and get undressed to enjoy nature the best way they can. Provided that you stay within the park’s boundaries and you are discreet enough, you should not experience any problems.

10. St. Vincent Wildlife Refuge

Last but not least, this nude beach allows you to disrobe and feel natural without having to worry about anything. The beach is isolated and you will have to rent a boat to get here. The sole disadvantage when it comes to St. Vincent Wildlife Refuge is that there is no lifeguard around, and no modern amenities can be found here. This is why the island is mainly visited by nudists and eco-tourists.

The Benefits of Cuckolding

The Benefits of Cuckolding In most cuckold cases, the men are not able to sexually satisfy their wives. This means that those ladies who will stick to their partner is not being satisfied in bed. Besides, most men are not aware of other techniques and that is where cuckolding comes in play. Cuckolding type of relationship is where a man watches his lady being pleased sexually by other men. You may think it sound strange but there are a few key benefits of this type of relationship.

  1. The Woman Will Be Satisfied 

Not being able to enjoy sex with your partner can put a strain on a relationship. Some women are sexual beings and crave the contact and release from intercourse. In cuckolding, the woman will have a chance of enjoying what other men have to offer and what her partner can’t give her when it comes to sex. Most of the couples who take part in this type of relationship have something they want to achieve and one of them may be sexual satisfaction. Therefore for those ladies who are always complaining of not being satisfied, maybe this is a lifestyle you may want to explore with your partner.

  1. Discover New Ways of Intercourse

The Benefits of Cuckolding There are some sex positions and styles that can allow a couple to enjoy sex even if a partner is unable to fulfill the act of intercourse. A man may not know the best ways he can satisfy his partner without intercourse and a swinger bull may be able to give him a few pointers. The best way to be exposed to such styles is by indulging in cuckolding relationship. The man is supposed to watch his lady have sex with other men who can give him ideas on other ways to please his partner sexually. In the process, he will be copying some styles where the lady is enjoying most. This will give him a chance to realize more pleasurable sex styles and this can actually improve their way of doing and enjoying sex.

  1. It Will Build the Trust between the Couples

Obviously the couples who take part in such a relationship have no reasons to cheat on each other. Their problems are purely sexual and will be solved once the woman is being satisfied. If a lady wants more sexual pleasures, she can suggest it to her partner that they go this type of relationship instead of cheating. In fact it is very rare to have such couples cheat in their relationship.