In the swingers lifestyle, it’s fairly common for wives to fantasize about being with another partner while their spouse is present—or not. This agreement is known as a hotwife relationship, with both partners and participants fully consenting. These arrangements can be loads of fun, but finding the right man or men to play with takes careful consideration.
Here are some screening tips for potential hotwifing partners.
Many might call these men ‘bulls,’ and the most common place to find these party boys is online. While there’s no shortage of swinger and lifestyle sites to browse what’s out there, finding a service that requires some form of pre-screening for members is very wise.
Many sites allow reviews to be left by previous playmates, and they can be a good indicator of who’s worthy of your time. It’s also nice to look at photos and get a feel for them before considering any type of communication or meet-ups.
Measure the Chemistry Level
If you’re not into their photos or find their bio appealing, it’s not likely that there will be much chemistry in person. However, this can perhaps be best measured with some small talk or basic video communication before tossing their profile aside.
It’s important for both swingers in the relationship to have some chemistry with someone that they plan to take to the bedroom. Sometimes, men are better judges of character, because who understands men better than men?
Don’t Feel the Need to Rush Into a Hotwife Relationship
Considering that your new bull is likely a complete stranger, take time to meet up for a casual date if you’ve gotten past the screening and are attracted to them. Public places for a few drinks or a casual meal is great starting point. Bring along the spouse or at least a girlfriend or two for added security and as a possible way out should the meeting not go as well as planned.
Have a few code words or secret signals to use if things get uncomfortable. Either way, take time to get a feel for the bull before hopping into the sack or bringing them to your home.
Be Spontaneous, But Do So Safely
Those in the swingers lifestyle have an obligation to themselves and their partners to play it safe. This means having appropriate protection, such as condoms ready to go in case the action gets hot unexpectedly.
It’s also a smart call to make sure that you don’t go out to clubs or bars in search of bulls without your partner or friends. After all, these meetings can be risky and that fantasy sex can end up being a very bad and dangerous situation.
Use Your Intuition
Those gut instincts are essential in hotwifing, so anyone you meet online can either give you a good or bad vibe. Trust your intuition, and be sure to take the reviews of other swingers into consideration. There are quite a few wolves in the regular dating world, so prepare to cross a few bad apples in your search for the perfect bull to bring into your life.
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