Certain men and women are very adventurous about their sex lives than others. Sometimes you may feel that you want to bring something different into your sex life rather than having to keep doing the same ole thing all the time. This usually happens with marriages a lot. People who have been married for a while feel that if they bring in other couples into the picture that their marriage will get better. From what I have heard it does get better.
Many couples are willing to give this a try, but just don’t know where to start. There are many things that you can do to get information and start slowly to venture into sexual parties with other people or couples. You can place an ad on the web in the personals section; you can advertise in a magazine or sign up for an online dating site.
Swingers can have a variety of multiple different partners to have sexual intercourse with here are a few:
Threesome – You can have two women with one man or two men with one woman
Couple To Couple – This is when one husband and wife plus another husband and wife have sex with each other (each man sleeps with the other man’s wife)
Group Orgies – Here you will see more women having sexual intercourse with women, but not men to men. Also, men and women are sleeping with multiple partners.
Voyeurism – This is where you can come and watch couples at parties and events have fun with each other in different clubs for swingers (this is an orgy party). Watching other multiple partners having sexual intercourse right in front of you this will probably get you aroused.
Here are some important rules you need to follow if you want to get into the swingers community.
1. You and your wife or girlfriend need to be clear about why you want to get into the swinging community.
2. You and your partner (it does not have to be your wife, it can be a girlfriend) must have some history behind your relationship. You must enter the community as a couple.
3. You must be in touch with each other’s emotional needs and wants. This is crucial.
4. This is also crucial – You both must be comfortable and confident in each other being approach by other men and women. They do not want fights and arguments to break out.
If you are ready to try group sex or if you are single and you are ready to start dating again you can start by going to the Polyamory Room to chat about group sex or you can go to one of our other chat rooms to talk to women at.It’s a common conception that most threesomes are suggested by males. This is because, in most instances, it is the guy who has the desire for sex with multiple partners. However, if your girlfriend is the one who is suggesting a threesome, you have got work cut for you.
If you are the one who is initiating the idea of a threesome, here are some surefire ways to persuade your girlfriend into agreeing to participate in group sex.
Naturally, a woman worries about anyone which threatens the relationship between her boyfriend and herself. Therefore, it is understandable that she feels insecure about threesomes because of this particular reason.
To overcome your girlfriend’s objection to threesomes, it is imperative that you overcome her insecurity. Following are three easy ways to boost her confidence –
1. Never, ever hit on her friends. You will never pull a threesome if she thinks that it’s just an excuse to sleep with her friends.
2. Avoid criticism. No negative remarks.
3. Regularly affirm your love for her. Compliments and gifts would work wonders, only if given sparingly and appropriately.