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FFM, MMF, MFM, FMF…What’s The Difference in Swinging?

There tend to be quite a number of acronyms tossed around in the swinging lifestyle…ones that often confuse both novices and experienced swingers. Four such acronyms include: MMF, FFM, MFM and FMF. This isn’t surprising because most three letter acronyms seen in lifestyle ads are specific to a ‘type’ of partner being sought or one specifying their body type. MMF, FFM, MFM and FMF however, refer to gender preferences concerning a specific type of threesome. So, what’s the difference between the four? Here’s the lowdown.

MMF and FFM in the Swinging Lifestyle

MMF means ‘male, male, female’ and FFM means ‘female, female, male.’ These types of threesomes involve intimate engagement between the two same sex parties in the group in addition to the third participant. Hence, MMF would be two men getting it on with a female, while also tending to one another. The same is true for FFM—two females sharing one man while being intimate with each other, too. These types of threesomes are popular with bisexual swingers and those seeking to expand their boundaries or double their fun in playtime.

MFM and FMF and Swingers

These terms are the most common types of threesomes. MFM being two males and a female together, and MFM is often referred to as a “Devil’s Threesome.” FMF is often called ‘the good kind’ of threesome, being two females and a male. In these situations, there is generally no homosexual contact between the two parties of the same sex. However, threesome experiences can lead to unpredictable situations, and one never knows for certain where things may lead!

If you are unsure, look for the gender in the middle and they are who will be the object of your affections during a threesome. So, if you are not bi or bi curious, stay away from MMF and MFF threesomes.  Now that you’re in the know, you can confidently choose a threesome style that fits your lifestyle experience. What are your favorite or most desired types of threesomes? Share with us on the SLS Forums.

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BENEFITS OF THREESOMES

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A man or lady may hope to satisfy their partner by satisfying his/her fantasies or bi-inquisitive inclinations, thus consents to a threesome with someone else. Obviously, there is the promiscuous individual who is basically searching for that infrequent energy of a threesome. Benefits for ladies  Achieving a Fantasy If you have ever fantasized about being sleeping with various partners, taking part in a threesome will help you experience your dreams and experience new ones. New Experience: Having a threesome ought to be for individual delight! In the event that it’s READ MORE

How To Score Threesomes In Simple Steps

Learn How To Score Threesomes In Simple Steps. It’s a typical and common knowledge is that most threesomes are recommended by guys. This is on account of, in many examples, the person …

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HAVING YOUR FIRST THREESOME

Having your first threesome can either be a big cause of excitement or a big cause of apprehension. A lot of first-timers find it hard to initiate a threesome and even more difficult to ask others questions on how…

The art of threesome: Two men and a single woman

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mmf threesomeThe erotic world is full of fantasies that men and women always wish to experience and achieve so as to have a feel of the whole thing. No wonder many women are secretly engaging in threesome with two men. Men and men alike have their own favorite fantasies to achieve, but as men are known to be more straight-forward in expressing themselves, women on the other hand are known to keep their wishes secret over time.

Statistics show that one of the most-wanted erotic experiences is having threesome. The same statistics also say that there are several reasons that keep them from getting this one of a factor that spices relationships. This is threesome involving two men and a single woman. To get men willing to do this with them should not be a hard task, but the fear of expressing their wants dodges them and they don’t have it in the end. This is just one of the reasons that get them to keep their intentions not known.

Another reason is that when a lady shows willingness to participate in a threesome with two other men, she may be labeled as a ratchet lady with loose morals. This is a sensitive nature of a lady and most always want to maintain a “good’ name for them. A lady can only confide in a few close friends about this need then hope that a chance comes her way.

Threesomes involving a lady with two men and a lady in a relationship may need her guy to bring over a male friend or any other male acquaintance that they are both comfortable with. The outcome of this may be good or disastrous depending on how the threesome sex went about. It has the potential to bring the couple closer after participating in the same erotic adventure that they have always wanted, or take them apart when the threesome was awful.

The statistics with these findings reports that only a few women are willing to divulge information about their feelings on threesome with two men but they do not deny the fact that most of them secretly wish they would experience it at least once in their lifetime.

Additionally, statistics and reports point to a scenario that a threesome with two ladies and a single man is more common than one with a single lady and two men. This is because men like to be the center of such sexual nature and they would prefer to have two men all paying attention to them, than participate in one where there are two men with a lady at the center of it all.
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Group Sex – How To Start Having Fun With Multiple Partners And Threesomes

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Certain men and women are very adventurous about their sex lives than others. Sometimes you may feel that you want to bring something different into your sex life rather than having to keep doing the same ole thing all the time. This usually happens with marriages a lot. People who have been married for a while feel that if they bring in other couples into the picture that their marriage will get better. From what I have heard it does get better.

Many couples are willing to give this a try, but just don’t know where to start. There are many things that you can do to get information and start slowly to venture into sexual parties with other people or couples. You can place an ad on the web in the personals section; you can advertise in a magazine or sign up for an online dating site.

Swingers can have a variety of multiple different partners to have sexual intercourse with here are a few:

Threesome – You can have two women with one man or two men with one woman

Couple To Couple – This is when one husband and wife plus another husband and wife have sex with each other (each man sleeps with the other man’s wife)

Group Orgies – Here you will see more women having sexual intercourse with women, but not men to men. Also, men and women are sleeping with multiple partners.

Voyeurism – This is where you can come and watch couples at parties and events have fun with each other in different clubs for swingers (this is an orgy party). Watching other multiple partners having sexual intercourse right in front of you this will probably get you aroused.

Here are some important rules you need to follow if you want to get into the swingers community.

1. You and your wife or girlfriend need to be clear about why you want to get into the swinging community.

2. You and your partner (it does not have to be your wife, it can be a girlfriend) must have some history behind your relationship. You must enter the community as a couple.

3. You must be in touch with each other’s emotional needs and wants. This is crucial.

4. This is also crucial – You both must be comfortable and confident in each other being approach by other men and women. They do not want fights and arguments to break out.

If you are ready to try group sex or if you are single and you are ready to start dating again you can start by going to the Polyamory Room to chat about group sex or you can go to one of our other chat rooms to talk to women at.It’s a common conception that most threesomes are suggested by males. This is because, in most instances, it is the guy who has the desire for sex with multiple partners. However, if your girlfriend is the one who is suggesting a threesome, you have got work cut for you.

If you are the one who is initiating the idea of a threesome, here are some surefire ways to persuade your girlfriend into agreeing to participate in group sex.

Naturally, a woman worries about anyone which threatens the relationship between her boyfriend and herself. Therefore, it is understandable that she feels insecure about threesomes because of this particular reason.

To overcome your girlfriend’s objection to threesomes, it is imperative that you overcome her insecurity. Following are three easy ways to boost her confidence –

1. Never, ever hit on her friends. You will never pull a threesome if she thinks that it’s just an excuse to sleep with her friends.

2. Avoid criticism. No negative remarks.

3. Regularly affirm your love for her. Compliments and gifts would work wonders, only if given sparingly and appropriately.
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Tips to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome

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A Threesome is really a different version of normal sex. It is important for you to be sure that you are ready for it before you think about it. It can be a good choice for couples but they should be choosing the right person for the same. If you are really comfortable watching another person touching your partner and being intimate, you should decide to have this mind blowing sexual experience. If you feel that you may have the issues of anger, sadness or jealously then better to stay away from threesome.  Your relationship needs to be stable before you decide on a threesome.

A Distant Friend

A friend’s friend whom you have never met can be the perfect person to be chosen for your threesome. If you are just two friends who want to enjoy a threesome then it is important that you stay safe. Choosing a friend whom you know but do not know much can be a great pick for such intimidating experience. There are quite a lot of guys who are really interested in threesomes these days and so it’s not hard for you to get somebody especially if the extra person is male. By choosing a friend of sorts, it ensures your safety and also can make the experience very comfortable.

Attached or Single Person

There are chances for you to even get swingers for threesomes. They can be really amazing with you. The swingers are very common these days which increases your chances for finding the right partner for the relationship. Most swingers belong to the oldest largest running swingers dating site called Swinglifestyle. There are also many clubs for swingers so it’s easy for you to choose the one who is right for you. These clubs provide you with more freedom than what you imagine.Threesomes are no more considered as a weird or impossible thing. The fact is that these days many couples or individuals are there who do not believe in sexual monogamy but they love to experience trios and the great feeling with it. It is really a new outlook towards sex which is getting embraced in faster pace by this generation. If you are interested in such a kind of sexual experience, only thing you should be careful with is that you should not harm your relationship and always try Swinglifestyle for your sexual needs.

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Why Women Prefer Two Men In A Threesome With an Alpha Male

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It’s no secret that women prefer two men in a threesome with an alpha male.  A threesome is nothing but having sexual pleasure and fun with two people. You can have a threesome with two men or two women but generally women prefer two men in threesome with an alpha male. But are you wondering why ? It is because women love the company of men more than a woman and they can get more sexual pleasure from two men compared to a woman. However, the case can be different if the woman is bi-sexual or lesbian.

Why Woman Prefer Two Men in Threesome

The answer to this question can differ among women. Different women can have different reasons behind choosing two men with an alpha male while having a threesome. When there are two men the amount of pleasure the girl will be getting is much higher compared to when there are two women. In an  MFM (Male-Female-Male) the female character also gets a chance to pleasure two guys that many women love to do. On the other hand, when there is two males the woman gets more orgasms as the two men will be there to please her in all the ways possible. When two men are pleasing the woman, generally the two will try and out perform the other resulting in more orgasms for the woman.

However, the woman also has a great part in the threesome. You must be able to pleasure both the men equally. Give sexual pleasure to both the men and arouse them to give you the ultimate sex pleasure that you are looking for. A threesome can be of different types such as it can be bidirectional and multidirectional. In bidirectional approach two out of three people pleasure themselves and the third watches them having sexual pleasure and when one needs a break the other person enters to pleasure the woman more.

In Multidirectional threesome, all the parties go together pleasuring each other every way possible. It is a very pleasurable moment for a woman when two men are trying to pleasure her from top to bottom and she the same way is trying to pleasure both the men using her hands, mouth and vagina, and even if super daring her anus. If you are curious about how you can join in a MFM threesome then you can see the videos featuring threesomes or you can also read threesome guide articles to know the rules of a perfect threesome with two male. Read more: Threesome Guides & Articles

Having a threesome with two guys is a fantasy of many women. If you are one of them and you have a boyfriend, husband or partner, then never hesitate to share your fantasy with your guy because you will love it more when the alpha man is your own guy.

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