Swinging lifestyle entails variety of sexual experiences that entails is having recreational sex with other people other than your partner. In most cases, the couples meet with the singles or other couples mainly for sexual pleasures. Even if it is repeated many times with the same partner, most of the swingers believe that there is no strong attached. Most enjoy the sexual companionship of their swinging partner outside the bedroom. There are some cases where they naturally want to hang out for non – sexual activities such as meet up for drinks and conversations, seeing each other in the weekend and spending time together while on vacations. The swinging relationship enjoyed together will not last for long whether in the bedroom or outside bedroom why?
Long term relationships will not work for swingers due to their nature. They are a part of the lifestyle to experience a variety and after some time, it loses flavor. One of the excitements of this is trying new people for the first time. There is that excitement of first touch, first kiss and first everything. You can create the same excitement in the second and third touch but as time goes, that excitement dulls then it’s over.
Polyamory relationship are different from a swinging relationship. In polyamory relationship, commitment is between multiple partners while a swinging relationship, there is only one committed relationship and that is with the couple. Others coming to play are not thought of as a serious relationship and wit would server for them to remember that. It is not a bad idea to have friends as swinging partners, but all parties should be aware and not look for more than what is really there, just people having sex.
If you are in a swinging relationship and want to break it off with the other couple, contact the couple you are dating and inform them that you want to talk to them about your relationship. You can just talk to them immediately or schedule a time to talk. When you meet them, break it to them gently and remain amicable. The swinging community is small and a close-knit group. You are likely to run into them later and you have to be careful just to spare hard feelings moving forward. Chances are they wanted to tell you the same but did not know how to tell you. It is also important to be aware that they are people with feelings and as swingers, this have to be considered.
