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The Role of Fantasy in the Swingers Lifestyle

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There are many in the swingers lifestyle are already living out one or most of their sexual fantasies. Trying new scenarios like BDSM, cuckolding, hotwifing and group sex at playtime can fulfill certain unrealized swinger fantasies. When partners open up about their deepest fantasies, they can discuss exploring these thrilling experiences and interactions. Once you have a discussion about the possibilities and come to an agreement about engaging in your sexual fantasies, it’s just time to make those dreams come true.

Common Swinger Lifestyle Fantasies

For those who are into swinging, common fantasies vary depending on their desires and the scenarios they want to explore. One of the most commonly fulfilled swinger lifestyle fantasies involves partner swapping or having multiple groupings.

Bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism (BDSM) are lifestyle fantasies many swinger couples tend to explore. BDSM has a wide range of acts, which adds to its allure. Many like the idea of being submissive and restrained and/or spanked while some prefer the dominant role where they take charge of disciplining their lovers. This is appealing to those who desire a combination of power dynamics, control and consensual pain during sexual experiences.

Adventures involving sexual novelty practices might appeal to beginning swingers and more experienced couples would venture into more taboo areas such as anal play, outdoor sex or exhibitionism. Everyone has their starting point for expanding their sex life and losing their inhibitions through making fantasies a reality.

Reality vs. Fantasy When Swinging

While many people get excited by the allure and enjoyment that’s possible in swinger fantasies, the transition from reality to fantasy and vice versa is a complex, fine distinction. Just taking fantasies about swinging into real life can be challenging, and mandates solid communication and honest dialogue. This is the key to discussing expectations and boundaries.

The Psychological Role of Living Out Fantasies

In the realm of sexual gratification and personal fulfillment, fantasies play a key role, especially in the swinging community. Using your imagination when considering fantasy scenarios ensures that you have a better chance of heightened sexual pleasure.

Looking at exploring fantasies from a psychological viewpoint indicates that fulfilling them has several benefits. One of those perks is that partners tend to have greater intimacy and a stronger emotional bond between them as they delve into fantasies and share them with each other.

Swinger Fantasies Are Therapeutic

It may sound surprising, but acting on sexual fantasies can be a form of therapy that alleviates stress and other psychological blockages. For example, BDSM fantasies can indicate a need for control or to submit to another, yet it can be a sign of the need to feel desired and gain approval. Group sexual fantasies may reflect the desire to feel irresistible and a better than competent lover.

Turn Fantasies Into an Active Part of Your Sex Life

Because swingers engage with other partners outside their primary relationship, they have more opportunities to live out fantasies compared to vanilla couples. Step beyond societal norms to enjoy your unique desires for a satisfying sexual journey that increases intimacy and lets you and your partner better understand yourselves and each other.

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Wife Swapping – An Overview of the Swingers Lifestyle

Amid the swingers lifestyle, the concept of wife sharing (aka wife swapping) is not a new idea, but rather an accepted one. This involves a couple participating in sexual activities …

Womens Top 10 Sex Fantasies

Several of my faithful blog followers have written in and asked what are the common sex fantasies that women think about. I conducted a few surveys and did some investigations on the subject and I was a little surprised by what I found out. Below are the top ten sex fantasies for women. No.10 Domination (her dominating you) Women may love a big strong man that can sweep em off their feet, but there are several women that want to dominate and be in control. Why? the control factor, she…  Read More

5 Swingers Lifestyle Fantasies To Explore

Swinging is a fantasy in and of itself to many people. More frisky individuals than you know are highly turned on to the concept of getting freaky with multiple partners—even if they won’t admit it! Let’s get down and dirty…

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Great Tips for an Amazing Gallery on Swinger Sites

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swinging traitsWhen viewing an online profile at a swinger dating site, you can view actual photos of the person the profile belongs to. This helps the person viewing the profile immensely because the person viewing the profile can see if they are attracted to the person or not. Here are some tips on creating an amazing photo album profile on a swinger’s website:

1. It is always better to have a few pictures than less. This gives you a chance to get more appealing feedback from your viewers.

2. Don’t be afraid to be recognized by someone you know. Only paid members have access to your album and even when someone you know sees your picture, they probably have the same motive as you.

3. It is possible to find local swingers in your area. Just send them a private message to discuss it further. Don’t make it an open invitation to everyone as you may risk having someone that you don’t know. Use a private chat room to ensure a fantastic swinger’s party.

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4. If you do decide to include nude pictures, make sure that you look great and charming. Don’t just take picture with your genitals exposed – at least get into a pose or take the picture in an artful manner. You can get inspirations and excellent naked poses from nude photography sites, books, lifestyle magazines and erotic websites.

5. You should be consistent on how you look on your profile photo gallery and how you dress up when meeting a swinger who wants to hook up. When your profile picture shows you at your best, wearing great clothes for a night out on the town or club, then you should also be in your best attire when your date sees you.

6. Most members on swinger dating sites try to post their profile photo that says a lot about them. They also love to post pictures that show who they are, and what they love doing. A good photo of a swinger traveling to different countries, one that shows them playing their favorite sport or a picture that shows them rocking out at a live concert effectively tells the viewers an idea of what to expect.

7. Don’t use Photoshop or any other image-enhancing software because it will become obvious when your date sees you. Post pictures that show the natural you.

8. Couple swingers should add in profile photos of both of them as much as possible. It would send the wrong signal if only one person is on the picture, when in reality the two of you are looking to meet fellow swingers.

How to Break up with a Swinger Couple

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How to Break up with a Swinger Couple As you probably know, swinging is all about having a variety of sexual experiences with people other than your significant other. In most cases, couples meet other like minded couples or singles for merely sexual pleasure. The basis of these get-together is that there are no strings attached even if you both choose to repeat the experience over again.

Since many of us enjoy companionship with our sex partners outside of the bedroom, it’s natural to want to hang out with them for non-sexual activities. You may work to establish a friendship that lasts for years. However, most swinging relationships do come to an end at some point.

There’s no doubt that adding friendship to sex can make things a little uncomfortable and the primary reason why dating doesn’t work out for swingers is due to their preferences. At their nature, swinger couples enjoy variety. After a while, the couple you’re seeing loses interest. The excitement of this lifestyle comes from trying new people and having new firsts again. It’s certainly possible to recreate that excitement in later encounters, but don’t be surprised if it goes away. The best thing to do is take your time.

How to Break up with a Swinger Couple Some couples who are looking to establish a working relationship with another couple have suggested polyamory, but swingers aren’t really interested in that option. While it’s great to have friendships, it’s not a good idea for that friendship to be built on a foundation of sex. It’s better to avoid letting feelings get in the way, but it happens all the time.

When you decide to break up, it’s going to be hard to take this step. You’ll probably be worried about hurting other people’s feelings and there is a certain amount of tension associated with that relationship. It may help to think of this as regular dating. You can feel the tension build up inevitably. Personality clashes over time, so make sure to discuss your feeling with your partner and decide upon a mutual agreement that will fit you needs. If that includes breaking up with the couple, then that is what must be done.

When you finally make the decision to break up, contact the couple and let them know that you’d like to take some time to discuss your relationship. You can do this right away, but it may be better to schedule a time to talk. Once you have their attention, avoid the urge to sugarcoat what you’re trying to say. They’ll probably figure out what you’re trying to say anyways. Break the news to them gently and try to remain friendly. After all, the swinging community is a small group. You’re fairly likely to run into them at some point down the road. Don’t be surprised if the couple holds similar feelings and weren’t sure how to bring them up. However, if you do find that they don’t feel the same way, try to be as considerate as possible.

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