The beauty of life is that everyone is unique in his own way and that is a good thing. However, some things are common among all humans even those that are sensitive subjects to discuss. For example, sex is enjoyable and you would like to have as much of it as you can in your lifetime. It is also true that people in relationships would like to have sex with individuals other than their partners. To put it differently, swapping is a natural instinct in humans. Here are some of the reasons why couple swapping is a good idea.
– Swapping Is Fun
Different people can offer you different things. For instance, some people can make you laugh while other people can arouse you sexually. Remember, laughing at a joke made by someone other than your spouse is okay. Then why is it wrong when someone other than your spouse pleases you sexually. In fact, you can both be present as the magic happens. Similarly, you can both laugh at the jokes made by a funny couple. Life is fun and it is short. Enjoy it while it lasts.
– Honesty in a Relationship
Feelings of suspicion between you and your partner will destroy your relationship. You should not let that happen because mending your precious bond is next to impossible once those feelings emerge. Being honest about your desires and preferred sexual adventures will save your relationship. Talk to your partner openly about your fantasies including your physical attraction to other couples. This kind of openness prevents mistrust from creeping into your relationship. Moreover, it encourages the exploration of each other’s sexuality in addition to enjoying the company of other couples in an open, safe, and honest way.
– Learning New Things
Different people have different talents, but you would never know which talent they have unless you interact with them. The same principle applies to sex. You will never know everything there is to know about sex, but you can learn as much as you can from your interaction with other couples. This learning process should not be a solo effort. Why should you leave your partner out of the equation as you interact with others in an intimate way? In fact, your partner may also learn a few things or two if you invite him to your sexual escapades. You can even teach other couples the tricks that you know so they can benefit from you as well. In the end, everyone wins. That is the reason why couple swapping is a good idea.