Adult dating for swingers is more similar to vanilla dating more than many might assume. Those going out on a lifestyle date strive to look and feel their best and make a stellar impression on their companions. If you’re curious what those in the swingers lifestyle wear for meet-ups and rendezvous or are a novice seeking advice, this one’s for you.
Consider This Essential First…
First and foremost, it’s monumental to consider whether your attire will be ‘appropriate’ should your run into one of your co-workers or your child’s teacher. If you aren’t outed as being into swinging (and don’t want to be), keep this in mind whether you’re heading out for a meet and greet or to a sexy club engagement. On to the clothes you’ll perhaps aspire to take off.
Wardrobe Options for Casual Encounters
While men can get away with wearing some nice casual clothes or a sports jacket and slacks, ladies have it tough. Trying to find something wavering between classy, sexy and acceptable…where to even begin? Consider going with a relatively casual meet and greet outfit that’s somewhat subdued. Skinny jeans and a sexy top or sweater, a nice pants suit, or a dress that highlights all the right parts may be excellent choices.
Dressing for Serious Dates to the Swingers Club
If you know you’re going for the gusto with your date, it’s likely you won’t be making many stops where you might be spotted beforehand. Feeling bold? Wear sultry attire that’s barely there topped with a trench coat to make a memorable entrance that’s street legal. Don your best cosplay or even costume for special occasions. The club is your ‘free zone’ so many have little to no limitations on attire.
Most importantly, it’s WHO you are and how confidently you carry yourself that makes you the sexiest. So be comfortable first and foremost, so your brilliantly sexy personality will shine, too.
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