While many misunderstand its meaning, a soft swap can be a great introduction to the swingers lifestyle. Soft play is a way of easing into partner sharing, but many swinging couples strictly stick with this ‘softer side.’ In a hard swap—aka a full swap—the possibilities for penetration are only limited by boundaries set by participants. However, a soft swap generally stops somewhere shy of penetration. Think kissing, oral sex, manual stimulation, etc.
What Are the Benefits of Soft Play Swinging?
While the point of swinging is basically about swapping partners, going hard core with strangers right off the bat may not be your cup of tea. However, the basic act of seeing your partner caressing and receiving the affections of another may be stimulating, which is the basis of the lifestyle. Not only will you be super turned on, but you will be having experiences that you can relive in your private bedroom.
If you are somewhat jealous or are working on curbing such tendencies, doing a soft swap with a trusted couple can certainly help you both feel more comfortable. These types of swaps are a great way to test the waters and see if the lifestyle is right for you. If it is, you will probably find yourself craving even more action and feel brave enough to go with a full on hard swap in the future.
Take Precautions During Soft Swaps
It is essential to keep in mind that even no-intercourse playtime with toys, oral actions or manual stimulation can be a source of Swinging & STDs. With this in mind, take extra precautions during your swinging adventures to ensure that you and your primary partner are playing it safe.
Over the last few years, the swinging lifestyle has become quite the in thing with an increasing number of couples. However, despite this upsurge of interest in swapping sexual partners, there is still a lot of haze surrounding just what options are available for swingers. Particularly when it comes to choosing between soft swaps and full swaps. Naturally, there are extremely pertinent issues that need to be comprehensively addressed before swingers opt for either of these relationships. It is crucial for such couples to determine their distinct outlook to what READ MORE
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