When making the decision to sway beyond the socially accepted ‘norms’ of monogamy and explore the realm of the swinging lifestyle, newbies can find it challenging staying healthy as a couple if not well prepared. Let’s explore what sane and lasting swinging relationships seem to have in common.
Follow Established Rules
Clearly, you’ve already had a talk with your partner (or potential ones) about your desire to get involved in the swingers lifestyle on some level. Make sure that ‘level’ is clearly defined and that rules and boundaries are established and followed. This means, no sneaking around on apps, social media or stepping out without permission. Period.
You have to respect yourself, your main partner and anyone else you decide to have relations with. As long as you and your primary have those rules set and follow them to a tee, there might not be many problems. However, a loving relationship that isn’t strongly respected might not survive in the swingers lifestyle.
Absolutely the most pertinent aspect of being in the swingers lifestyle is to know you’re playing safe. This means getting tested regularly and maintaining a clear status through protected sex at all times.
As a closing note, always be mindful of after care when playing. Regardless of why or when you swing, your primary should always feel like number one in your life.
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