If somehow you sense that you might be in the presence of a swinger, you need to figure out different ways you can confirm your suspicion. Many people thrive amidst other swingers without having a full conscious of who they really are in the first place. This, on the other hand, makes a person vulnerable and gives such swingers an upper-hand or opportunity to live double lives — since they are very good at masquerading like faithful partners.
Talk About It
Consequently if you normally have conversations with other people you suspect are swingers, you should not have any problems at all bringing up the subject. Otherwise you will notice whenever there are swingers around, they will get very uncomfortable and undeniably conspicuous because the subject is quite hard for them to bear. If they in such a way, don’t want other people to suspect them or seem vulnerable, quite often they will begin to fidget and seem rather uncomfortable. Others may open up and fake they are interested in discussing the subject with you even further. As a result, if you find the person seems quite uncomfortable about the subject, in an instance drop the subject. Though most probably, such a person won’t utter a word about them being a potential swinger.
Couples
If somehow you stumble upon couples you highly suspect to be swingers, simply pay close attention to how they behave toward other couples. See whether you can distinguish any subtle similarities on the way they checkout people, like a single person would. Checkout the way they approach or are approached by other couples. Many times, couples who are swingers seem interested being amidst other couples who are swingers like them too – analyze such behavior carefully.
Position of Jewelry
Another easy way to identify a swinger is to check the subtle way they cover their body’s skin with jewelry. Particularly women you will occasionally find an anklet worn on their right leg, meaning they are swingers and would love to play. Other indications that show a woman might be a swinger are simple clues such as wearing a thumb ring, toe ring and a bracelet on the left ankle. In some rare occasions, most married women would actually switch their wedding ring to the right hand. All these clues suggest such women are conveying vibes that they are most likely potential swingers and are available to play.
Tattoos on the forehead
Lastly, swingers won’t have different kind of tattoos edged on their foreheads, to label them as potential swingers toward other people of the same kind. Thus why, in most social conventions like a bar, it’s quite easy for swingers to hookup with each other since they understand each other’s vibe very well. You will find them passing vibes in groups, and if you are part of them you will definitely find someone who will dig your vibe very fast and easy.
Above all else, it’s always advisable to ask whether a person is a swinger first, before jumping to abrupt conclusions and thinking of drawing them to bed. Maybe the person you perceive to be a swinger could be a church leader around your area, so be careful people.
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