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How to Plan For a Swinger House Party

Swingers News - How To Plan A Swinger Party Swinger house parties are more discreet and normally by invitation only.  Announcements for such parties are normally broadcast on swinger’s website, where a community of open minded people in the lifestyle gets to connect with others.  If you are a part of the swinging lifestyle and want to plan a swinger house party, here are a few tips:

  •  Post your event on a swinger’s dating website to connect with local swingers in your area.  (Decide if you want a themed or non-themed party).
  • Try to advertise the event at least 30 days before the date, that way you are guaranteed a better than expected turnout.
  • Specify in the invite if it’s a BYOB event or if alcohol will be provided.
  • On the day of the event, make sure the property is clean and ready to receive guests.
  • If you are having a pool party, make sure the pool is clean and ready for use.
  • Specify the areas that will be designated as play areas and playrooms.  Also keep in mind that you may have smokers at the party, so you want to designate an area for that purpose as well.
  • Make sure there are clean sheets and towels available at all times by the play areas.
  • Condoms and lots of them should be everywhere, along with some sex toys, maybe a swing, and a cage etc., something to add a little spice to the party.
  • If you have kids make sure they stay with relatives or a neighbor, and if you have pets, the same, or put them in an unused room with some food and water.
  • Make sure you have enough parking to accommodate your guest.  Some neighbors may not like cars parked on their grass on in their driveway.
  • Have some music playing and some swinger adult videos on the tube, and get ready to receive your guest.

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Download Your Free Online Copy of Swingers Magazine

Download Your Free Online Copy of Swingers Magazine - LifeStyle MagazineLifeStyle Magazine is a free magazine for swinging couples and singles in the lifestyle.  It covers great articles like the best Chinese herbs that can help to improve your sex life.  It discusses ways to maintain a healthy swinging lifestyle and why portion control in dieting is not the answer.  It also outlines the major factors to weight gain and how to overcome them.

Cheating on a spouse can be the end all of most relationships, as was true in the case of Tiger Woods, Peter Cook, Jude Law, Marilyn Manson, Kobe Bryant and a whole lot more.  These are just some of the celebrities that cheat on their spouses, but non-celebs cheat on their partners all the time, but you don’t hear about those stories, unless it hits real close to home.  This magazine takes a look at the difference between cheating and swinging.  The magazine title Swinging vs. Cheating takes a closer look at open marriages and why marriages in the lifestyle tend to have a higher success rate than those outside the lifestyle.

Read articles from actual lifestyle couples on how they got started in the lifestyle and what the lifestyle mean to them.  The swingers magazine also highlight the best place to take your swingers vacation, Hedonism anyone?  Find a list of swingers club near to you and upcoming swinger’s events and conventions.

Swinging and Polyamory

Swinging and Polyamory
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Is there a difference between swinging and polyamory? The answer is YES, but are they similar, kind of, let me explain. First off in polyamory  is a desire, practice or accepting the fact that you are in more than one relationship, whereas swinging you are in a relationship with a spouse/significant other and both allowed to play. There are multiple types of the poly lifestyle, such as polygynous and polyandrous. In order to understand polyamory you need to understand the two different types. First up is polygynous, which refers to one husband that has multiple wives. Next up is polyandrous, in which one wife has multiple husbands, although less common it does exist.

In a swinging relationship both the man and woman are faithful in a relationship to each other, but allowed to play, and are not married to more than one person. Some swingers and polyamory relationships have a live in person.  That three people together in the relationship is known as a triad. People who identify as polyamorous typically reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships. Sex is not necessarily a primary focus in polyamorous relationships. In swinging, there is usually lots of sex involved, and as mentioned polyamory is defined as rejecting the view that sex is needed for a long term relationship. Swingers are in long term relationships, and get into the lifestyle to create a better bond, add spice to the relationship etc.

Want To Break Up With A Swinger Couple? Do This!

Want To Break Up With A Swinger Couple? Do This!Swinging lifestyle entails variety of sexual experiences that entails is having recreational sex with other people other than your partner. In most cases, the couples meet with the singles or other couples mainly for sexual pleasures. Even if it is repeated many times with the same partner, most of the swingers believe that there is no strong attached. Most enjoy the sexual companionship of their swinging partner outside the bedroom. There are some cases where they naturally want to hang out for non – sexual activities such as meet up for drinks and conversations, seeing each other in the weekend and spending time together while on vacations. The swinging relationship enjoyed together will not last for long whether in the bedroom or outside bedroom why?

Long term relationships will not work for swingers due to their nature. They are a part of the lifestyle to experience a variety and after some time, it loses flavor. One of the excitements of this is trying new people for the first time. There is that excitement of first touch, first kiss and first everything. You can create the same excitement in the second and third touch but as time goes, that excitement dulls then it’s over.

Want To Break Up With A Swinger Couple? Do This!Polyamory relationship are different from a swinging relationship. In polyamory relationship, commitment is between multiple partners while a swinging relationship, there is only one committed relationship and that is with the couple. Others coming to play are not thought of as a serious relationship and wit would server for them to remember that. It is not a bad idea to have friends as swinging partners, but all parties should be aware and not look for more than what is really there, just people having sex.

If you are in a swinging relationship and want to break it off with the other couple, contact the couple you are dating and inform them that you want to talk to them about your relationship. You can just talk to them immediately or schedule a time to talk. When you meet them, break it to them gently and remain amicable. The swinging community is small and a close-knit group. You are likely to run into them later and you have to be careful just to spare hard feelings moving forward. Chances are they wanted to tell you the same but did not know how to tell you. It is also important to be aware that they are people with feelings and as swingers, this have to be considered.
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